In kindergarten your idea of a good friend was the person who let
you have the red crayon when all that was left was the ugly black one.
In first grade your idea of a good friend was the person who went to
the bathroom with you and held your hand as you walked through the scary
halls.
In second grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped
you stand up to the class bully.
In third grade your idea of a good friend was the person who shared
their lunch with you when you forgot yours on the bus.
In fourth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who was
willing to switch square dancing partners in gym so you wouldn't have to be
stuck do-si-do-ing with Nasty Nick or Smelly Susan.
In fifth grade your idea of a friend was the person who saved a seat
on the back of the bus for you.
In sixth grade your idea of a friend was the person who went up to
Nick or Susan, your new crush, and asked them to dance with you, so that if
they said no you wouldn't have to be embarrassed.
In seventh grade your idea of a friend was the person who! l! et you
copy the social s tudies homework from the night before that you had.
In eighth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped
you pack up your stuffed animals and old baseball but didn't laugh at
you when you finished and broke out into tears.
In ninth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who would
go to a party thrown by a senior so you wouldn't wind up being the only
freshman there.
In tenth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who changed
their schedule so you would have someone to sit with at lunch.
In eleventh grade your idea of a good friend was the person who gave you
rides in their new car, convinced your parents that you shouldn't be
grounded, consoled you when you broke up with Nick or Susan, and
found you a date to the prom.
In twelfth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who
helped you pick out a college/university, assured you that you would get into
that college/university, helped you deal with your parents who were
having a hard time adjusting to the idea of letting you go...
At graduation your idea of a good friend was the person who was
crying on the inside but managed the biggest smile one could give as they
congratulated you.
The summer after twelfth grade yo ur idea of a good friend was the
person who helped you clean up the bottles from that party, helped you sneak
out of the house when you just couldn't deal with your parents, assured you
that now that you and Nick or you and Susan were back together, you could
make it through anything, helped you pack up for university and just
silently hugged you as you looked through blurry eyes at 18 years of memories you
were leaving behind, and finally on those last days of childhood, went
out of their way to give you reassurance that you would make it in college
as well as you had these past 18 years, and most importantly sent you off to
college knowing you were loved.
Now, your idea of a good friend is still the person who gives you
the better of the two choices, holds your hand when you're scared, helps
you fight off those who try to take advantage of you, thinks of you at
times when you are not there, reminds you of what you have forgotten,
helps you put the past behind you but understands when you need to hold on to
it a little longer, stays with you so that you have confidence, goes out
of their way to make time for you, helps you clear up your mistakes, helps
you deal with pressure from others, smiles for you when they are sad, helps
you become a better person, and most importantly loves you!
Thank you for being a friend. No matter where we go or who we
become, never forget who helped us get there.
There's never a wrong time to pick up a phone or send a message
telling your friends how much you miss them or how much you love them.
You know who you are, pass it on to someone who you want to remind.
So send this to all your friends and maybe those who aren't but just
watch and see who sends it back.
If you love someone, tell them.
Remember always to say what you mean.
Never be afraid to express yourself. Take this opportunity to tell someone what they mean to you. Seize the day and have no regrets.
Most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they
have helped make you the person that you are today and are what it's all
about anyway. Pass this along to your friends. Let it make a difference in
your day and theirs.
The difference between expressing love and having regrets is that the regrets may stay around forever.