Sexual Outlook
People amaze me. The are such fun to watch. It is easy for me to go someplace where there are lots of people and just sit. The bodies come in so may different forms, most of them pretty attractive. Some remarkably so. But all worth looking at.

But it's just looking. The people I get interested in are not necessary the ones I find the most attractive to look at. They are the ones that I feel I can be friends with. The ones I can talk to and laugh with. The ones I can trust with my heart and soul.

Touching is important to me. I find that I want to be constantly touching the people I am in love with. There is something completely satisfying about cuddling with someone while reading or watching TV. You don't have to be doing anything, just being together.

I have a really strong imagination, and no lack of willingness to explore. If it is not objectionable to the people involved then it probably will not be objectionable to me. If it is, then I can't, just plain can't. Even if I want to. And I even have trouble making sure that some things aren't objectionable.

I occasionally play in the BDSM community. Not much, and only with very select people. The exchange of trust necessary is tough for me, because I have to know it's ok, but it can be a lot of fun. I do find myself more attracted to the D/S rather than the S/M. Am I a Dom, or a Sub? Well mostly a Dom, but for the right people (person) I can Sub.

I am bisexual, but it is more of a 60/40 or 70/30 split than truly even. Given a good looking (my definition) guy and a good looking (again my definition) gal walking down the street I am going to be watching the gal. At least at the beginning. Of course this is mainly due to the fact that while guys can be nice to look at, looks for guys, are pretty low on my list of attactants.

What do I find attractive? Attitude, bearing, and then appearance if I am just looking. Intelligence, actions, points of view, attitude, bearing, and then appearance if I am getting to know some one.

I sometimes use my imagination to create erotica. I have started moving away from "main stream" erotica and have started focusing on "poly" (which is kinda tough) and some BDSM erotica. I have a number of stories, many involving multiple couples, or same sex assignations. Write me and I might send you some. Though recently I have not been doing much writing.