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As you all know, or most know anyways I am a 36yr old Health Care Worker and recently separated. ( my choice, I left ) I figured all my marital problems would be over once I left the S.O.B. but.....boy was I wrong. Seems I have more troubles now than before I left if you can believe that!! How can a man sit there and bawl his eyes out saying how much he loves you and doesn't want you to leave, spread lies and stories and try to create havic with your puter the next? I guess this is his way of saying " you hurt me ", well hey........ I'm here to tell ya I wouldn't have left in the first place if I hadn't been hurt myself!! You wanna know the kind of shit a person who "supposedly" loves ya (hahaha) does to show it? Well that what I am here to tell ya all so y'all can be better prepared for the kind of shit I have had to put up with thus far. |
One particular lady and I had gotten to chatting one day and she seemed to know all about me even though I had never met her before.
She was like....... " oh yeah; your the girl who left her husband to go live with a guy you had met on the internet in Ontario." I was like.......what? Oh yeah she said, I heard all about how he paid your plane fare up and you were going there to live with him.
WELL HELLO........ I'm here, I have NOT been to Ontario since 1982, nor do I have any plans in going any time soon!!!
He used to send me emails all the time and I used to open them........I figured they'd be good for a laugh, and they were......except the laugh was on me.
A couple of months back some strange shit started happening.......like files in different spots and stuff. Being a computer ditz I never clued in.
Y'all have heard of instant messenger right? Well that was still on my puter from when hubby and I were still together.....I never used the thing cause it was something of his, and I wasn't interested in it. Anyways..... a friend of mine had it and wanted me to try it.......I couldn't get his user name changed so I just used it as it was. The next day I couldn't access it cause the password had been changed and I thought....... oh well, he probably changed it.... no biggie.......it was his anyways.
I had to download ICQ again........fortunately for me I keep a book with all my ICQ #'s in it so all was not lost. hehhehe
Anyways......seems my " loving husband" (hahaha) sent me a trojan horse in one of his email where he declares undying love........sheesh.
Any of you who are not familiar with trojan horses and what they can do....let me enlighten ya..........it gives the sender total access to your computor (TOTAL).....files, programs, you name it, they can access it, make changes, delete or even print anything.....like ICQ msg's and chats.....which is apparently what happened to me.
Anyways......for any of you people that use the Norton Anti Virus tool.......it's a piece of CRAP and didn't detect the horse on my system. So my advice is to invest in a good one to prevent any of this from happening to you.
Normally I wouldn't have written this for all to see, cause I don't care what he does to me, I can handle it....... but where he knows it doesn't bother me and he can't get to me through all his little head games.......he's taken it a step farther and has decided to involve my family. Probably thinks he can get to me through them......telling them he has print outs from my computer.....probably gonna use the printouts to try and black mail me.
Well guess what buddy........You have just declared war.........and I play to win!! Guess this is fair warning eh!!