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I will be posting the most interesting or the most heart wrenching letters and the answers that I get!Due to limited space I will not be able to put all letters in..*pout* Although I will do my best to write back to each and every problem....

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Dear PussyKatt, I am having a problem that I really hope that you can help me with....I am a 25 year old woman who has recently discovered that I am bi-sexual...well I have pretty much known my whole life...I have always liked looking at women and I even have an extensive collection of dirty magazines...I love women but I still love men as well I am even involved some what with a guy right now....I met this woman 2 months ago...and I really feel I need to explore this side of my sexuality...I really think this woman and I could really hit it but the problem is she is married and wants her husband to watch and I don't want to get into that kind of situation...it's just not me...my friends are all pressuring me to stick with the "straight" side of myself and hang up my desires for women...but I think I really need to explore this more fully...HELP!!!! I read your other letters and I think you can help relate and solve this problem....Thanks..
Hopelessly A Dyke...

Hopelessly A Dyke,
Ok now what you have is your sexuality crises...Well first off you nevermind what your friends are saying about what you should do about your sexuality!!! If this is something that you want to exdplore more power to you sister!!! I think that it is a very good idea to persue this avenue in life,for if you do not you might always wonder what if??? and it isn't hurting anyone is it? So like NIKE says JUST DO IT!!!
Now as far as this freind of your who want to have her husband present,I say that if you do not want to be involved in that kind of situation then JUST SAY NO!!! (I am full of little sayings today huh??? It is your life too so you are allowed to have a say in things and in this case you can say "I do not think so sister!!!" Ok in all seriousness if it is just that you are worried about weather or not you would be able to find another woman with which to spend some time with ,etc. don't worry and do not compromise your morals...it isn't worth it...

Pussykatt



Hello Ms. Pussykatt,
I've been having this sort of love problem. There's this guy that I met about 2 years ago saw him every once in awhile and about 5 months ago we started getting close. I have affection for him and I don't know about him. He's kind of involved at the moment with another but he says they have problems and he's been having problems himself. Now I hardly see him anymore but when he does come around he catches me by surprise...Could you tell me some good techniques for a woman to hold back her feelings and tell the guy off! Thank you!
Too Nice in Ohio

Too Nice in Ohio,
Indeed this is a very touchy situation!If you say too much you will give the impression that you do still like him and he will not take you seriously,but if you are not firm enough he will not get the hint! I myself am troubled by this,because I am kinda in the same boat you are!!!!...*LoL*
Here we go!!! My advice to you is this: The next time you see him or hear from him,you tell him exactly what is on your mind! Including telling him that if he doesn't feel the same way then you cannot see him anymore!
By the way the important part to this...is the follow through! Like for instance when he calls you have to be unavailable,when he stops by ,be on your way out! You know what what I am saying...If there is no follow through then he will take advantage of you every time!!!Men have more respect for a woman that knows what she wants!!! Please feel free to write again if you have more questions!!!

Pussykatt



PussyKatt73,
I have a small problem, I met this wonderful woman on the internet and we have both fallen madly in love with each other. The problem is even though we love each other more than anything in the world, we are half a world apart! I live in southern Australia and she lives in the midwest of America. I'm planning on moving over to the USA as soon as I possibly can, which is the start of 1999! Now being late July ,it's a very long way away. We love each other so much I know we can make it, and we are planning on getting married early next year after I get over there. She is the only thing I can think about day or night. My question is do you think our love is strong enough to last another 5 months being so far apart? I'm giving everything up so I can be with her, and I just want to know if you have ever known anyone in a situation like this before and making it? I know one couple personaly but they are much older than us, them being mid 30's to early 40's and myself being under the age of 25. I need your help please!

Madly In Love

Dear Madly In Love,
This is a very interesting situation! My first question is...Have you ever met each other in person? If not then I guess that would be the first step before you say that you are going to get married for sure...I mean really lets be *REAL* here!! What if you guys meet and one or the other or both decides you do not like the other. What then? You are professing your undying love for this woman and what if she is nothing like you thought...or vice versa? In any event I really think that you should meet before making wedding plans... Beyond all of that, your question was do I think that Love can last 5 months of being apart? Yes I think it can but it really does take a lot of work!!! Because alot of people fall out of love when they see each other everyday,let alone the distance you are talking about here...you have got alot working against you here...Yes alot of people meet and fall in love off the Internet. There are alot of success stories,but there are also alot of failures and dissapointments! In conclusion I am saying that I think you should take it day by day and if it is love (real love) it should work out for you...but do not be dissapointed if it does not...and by all means before you start talking marrage at least meet the lady in question first!

PussyKatt




Dear pussykatt73,
I have a big problem!! I have a best friend in the whole entire world..but lately she has been acting really weird...ever since she has had that new boyfriend of hers...I told her that I thought he was really cute and that I wanted to go out with him...I had no idea that she was going out with him...so I made up this lie...that he asked me out...she totally believed it and flipped out on him but not me...so when he told her that it was not the truth she believed him again...but now she is totally mad at me...I don't know how to fix things so that she can go out with him and all three of us can become friends....! I NEED HELP!!!! can you help me?
Liar

Dear Liar,
You have indeed created a problem for yourself...but never fear I have some advise! What you need to do is call her up and tell her that you are sorry! You made the whole thing up and hope that she forgives you...and then call up her boyfriend and tell him the same thing... and if they are real friends they will forgive you! Also if you have the tendancy to do this often this advise will only work for so long before they get tired of it! So if you are a pathological liar you will need to seek help for this! I hope this has helped you ...
PussyKatt

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This site is for entertainment purposes only! I do not claim to be a professional,and probably never will be!I am just a nosy person who likes to give advice...I cannot and will not be held responsible for bad advice, divorces,or anything similar!So just have fun with this service that is offered here! Thank You for your support!
Kisses,
PussyKatt