
Spanking implements
Throughout the world's history and cultures, parents used - and still use -
various implements for spanking. The most common "implement",
however, is the parent's open hand. Only the use of the hand is
recommended on this website.
Nevertheless, many other implements are listed below, because they
are frequently used in practice. Also, some parents feel that it is not
recommended to use their hand to punish a child because this will result
in the child fearing the parent's hand. They recommend using an implement
such as a rod, switch or paddle, because "it separates the discipline from
the giver". This website does not share this view. Spanking with your hand
only is recommended not only because it is safer, but also because it is more
personal.
Any implements other than the hand require the parent to be particularly
careful not to spank too hard. If you use any of these
implements, please do always try them first on your own thigh
(a few slaps with varying strength). This will give you an idea of how
painful they are. And always keep in mind that children are more sensitive to pain
than adults.
The hand
No spanking is as close and personal as a hand-spanking. The hand can be
used for spanking children of all ages. It causes sufficient pain, but
does not bruise the skin and leaves only temporal redness. It can be
tailored to be as severe or as mild as you want. It gives an objective
tactile feedback about the severity of the spanking through the parent's own hand.
A hand-spanking is best applied to the bare or underware-clad bottom.
Spanking with the hand on the unbared bottom requires spanking much
harder than a comparable spanking on the bare. It will literally hurt
the parent more than the child, especially if the child is wearing denim jeans
or other clothes made of a similar thick fabric.
Prior to the spanking, it is recommended to remove your finger rings,
especially loose ones, if you wear any. Some parents also prefer to roll
up their sleeve for a better swing of the arm. See the chapter Spanking
techniques for more tips on hand-spanking.
The paddle
Historically, wooden paddles for spanking were most popular in the
U.S.A. and are still used in many U. S. public and private schools, especially
in the southern states. Paddles are penetrative enough to be used on the
clothed bottom. If you use them on a bare bottom, you need to be extra
careful not to spank too hard. There is some danger of bruising the skin.
The main disadvantage of wooden paddles is that they make it difficult
for the spanker to tell the difference between spanking too hard and spanking
too light. They always make a loud noise. The actual pain depends very
much on the clothing worn, the paddle's size, material and weight, and
how hard it is swung. Paddles with holes drilled through the board sting more
because the holes reduce the air resistance and prevent the building of an
air cushion (the same physical principle finds application in a flyswatter).
Spanking paddles are available for purchase in many countries, especially in the
U.S.A. They come in various sizes, wood types, weights and shapes. However, it also doesn't
take great carpenting skills to make a paddle oneself. Use a thin, lightweight
board. To avoid injury, round all corners and sand the edges well. After
thorough sanding, varnish the paddle to make the surface smooth, clean, and free
from splinters.
The hairbrush
The back of a hairbrush is similar to a small paddle. Using a hairbrush
instead of a paddle has the advantage that you don't need to buy or make
a special implement for the purpose of spanking - but you lose the psychologic
advantage of having a clearly designated spanking implement in your house.
The traditional hairbrush will be made of wood, but plastic ones are
also possible. The most difficult part is to find a hairbrush that has
a suitable smooth, flat or slightly rounded back. Bigger hairbrushes tend
to bruise less then smaller ones because they do not concentrate the impact
on a too small area. The danger of bruising with hairbrushes is about
the same as with paddles.
The wooden spoon
This is a sometimes used ad-hoc implement (especially by mothers in
the kitchen). It is not recommended because the impact area of such a spoon
is typically quite small. The sort of pain produced is intense, but not
very good.
The ruler
Traditionally used by teachers as a spanking implement. A ruler is
similar in effect to a thin wooden paddle. Usually it is not as painful
as a hairbrush or a wooden spoon because of its light weight. For the same
reason, it is not very effective on a clothed bottom.
Modern plastic rulers are generally too light, metal rulers are of course
out of the question, but old-fashioned wooden rulers are a possible
alternative to a paddle or hairbrush. If you spank with a ruler, be
careful to hold it perfectly flat (at the point of impact), otherwise
bruising can occur easily where the edge hits. For that reason a ruler
should be considered a little unsafer than a paddle or hairbrush.
The slipper
The slipper is another implement that must be rated "ad-hoc" and "not
well designed for spanking". Still, many parents use it at home because
it is the implement that is within quickest reach. No general statements
about pain and possible bruising can be made as the weight and material
differs strongly. Slippers are not recommended on this site. Keep also in mind
that shoes, especially the soles, are not always the cleanest household
items.
The cane
Canes are among the most severe spanking implements in common use. They are
very painful even on a clothed bottom and can cause severe bruises. Generally,
thin canes produce less and shorter-lasting damage than thick ones, while
still being painful enough.
If you consider caning, please do not use bamboo canes! This is
really important. Use only rattan canes of small diameter. A small
diameter makes it more "switchy" and less severe. If you don't know the
difference between bamboo and rattan: both are lightweight (in contrast
to a wooden stick), but bamboo is hollow and not flexible at all, while
rattan is massive (spongy) and very flexible - you can easily bend
a rattan cane to a U shape and it won't break. This flexibility makes
rattan canes produce a very different (better) sort of pain. In addition,
bamboo canes have the danger of breaking/splitting - if they do, they can
cause severe injuries. A rattan cane will never break or split.
In contrast to what some books recommend, rattan canes do not have to
be soaked before use. Because of the spongy nature of unfinished rattan,
soaking would increase the pain produced because it adds weight to the cane,
and is therefore discouraged.
See Reader's Feedback, January 4, 2004
for a reader's detailed recommendations on caning.
The switch
A switch is a straight, slender rod cut from a bush or tree. It differs
from a "stick" in the respect that it is thinner and more flexible. This
flexibility places a switch somewhere in between a thin rattan cane and
a birch rod.
Many bush and tree species can be used for this purpose, as long as
they have straight, young, slender and flexible rods, but it is difficult
to find a really good switch. In summer, you will have to remove
the leaves (and small side-branches, if any) before the switch can be used.
It must be absolutely smooth (sanding helps if necessary) before it can be
used relatively safely.
Once cut, switches can not be stored for long because
when they dry out, they become brittle and will break easily. To prevent
this, some people recommend to soak switches in water for a few hours before
usage, which will make them more flexible and reduce the chances of
breaking.
The belt
Belts are rather brutish spanking implements, and should never be used.
They are very difficult to control (where they hit exactly, and how hard),
they can twist uncontrolled and hit with their edge, and cause bad and long-lasting bruises. When
badly aimed, they can even wrap around the body and cause severe injury.
They are strongly discouraged here.
The strap
Leather straps are thinner and shorter variations of the belt, and better
designed for spanking. However, the thinner ones are too floppy to control,
and the thicker ones are too painful and can cause bad bruises. Therefore,
neither are recommended here.
The tawse
Tawses are special variants of the strap that feature 2, 3 or 4 "tongues".
Their origin and main use to the present day is in Scotland. They are said to be extremely
painful and can also bruise a lot. For this reason they are not recommended.
The birch rod
A birch rod (also known as a "birchrod" or simply a "birch") is a bundle
of thin birch twigs bound together. Throughout written history up to the
19th century, the birch rod, next to various kinds of whips, was the most
popular spanking implement in Europe.
Birch rods are only painful if used on the bare skin. Even a thin layer of clothing
absorbs much of their effect because the individual twigs are very thin
and lightweight. The pain produced by this implement begins surprisingly
mild but increases cumulatively with the number of strokes. Birching leaves
a criss-cross of thin red lines on the skin. These look serious, but will
usually disappear within a few hours - they are actually not half as bad
as the bruises produced by a strap or cane.
Birches (and some types of willow) are the only trees whose twigs are thin and
flexible enough for this purpose. The rods should be prepared freshly (i.e.
used on the same day they are cut from the tree). When they dry out, they
become brittle, lose flexibility, and break easily. Soaking them in water
will give them even more flexibility and reduce breaking. Also be warned that
the room in which a birching was given will need cleaning of the broken-off
twigs afterwards.
The carpet beater
Although in comics and similar literature the carpet beater (rug beater)
appears frequently as a spanking implement, its actual use is hardly recommended
by anyone.
A carpet beater looks frightening, but is simply much too big for a real
spanking. Admittedly, there are also smaller
carpet beaters available, but these are still too big, especially for a
child's small bottom. Therefore, those smaller carpet/rug beater variants are not
recommended here either.
The flyswatter
The use of flyswatters as spanking implements is not overwhelmingly common,
but exists. Being lightweight and flap-ended, a flyswatter may appear
to be a comparatively "light" implement but it is more severe than it seems,
especially if applied to the bare bottom.
This implement is not recommended because, like any object made of plastic,
it produces an unfavorable sting. Leather flyswatters
probably come with a more favourable sting, but are still not
recommended because they can cause injuries from where the end of the
handle stick is attached to the flap.
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Hand
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Paddle
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Hairbrush
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Wooden spoon
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Ruler
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Slipper
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Bamboo cane
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Rattan cane
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Switch
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Belt
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Strap
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Tawse
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Birch rod
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Carpet beater
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Flyswatter
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