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| From: penelfor-penny@yahoo.co.uk
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: request to be spanked Date: Tuesday, November 30, 2004
Note: this letter is not anonymized on special request.
I have been very interested in the letters on your site and the idea that teenagers
actually ask their parents to spank them. I know that corporal punishment is now
frowned upon but I think it is admirable that there are still some responsible
teenagers who recognise the need to be punished. It's a pity that more parents aren't
as responsible and administer the necessary punishments 'with love' without having to
be asked to do it. I have told my mother, who is now in her seventies, about these
letters and she says how different it is from when she was younger. She didn't have
to ask for a spanking, this was a normal punishment. There was no arguing when she
was told to pull up her skirt and bend over, she did as she was told straight away and
was given a sound spanking with the slipper on the seat of her bloomers. This didn't
stop when she was no longer a teenager, either. She was spanked like this right up to
when she got married when she was 24. Even after she was married she was still smacked
by her mother when she did something her mother disapproved of. It wasn't a proper
spanking but she had to hold her skirt up at the back and her mother pulled up her
knicker-legs and smacked her alternately on each leg. Even though she was married she
daren't argue about this and she says she just stood there uncomplaining while her
mother smacked her. My mother did spank me with the slipper until I was 21 but she
hasn't spanked me since although I am still single and live at home with her.
Occasionally she tells me I am not too big to go over her knee and maybe at the age of
forty-two I am. If she insisted I think I would probably meekly obey just as she did
when her mother smacked her.
I don't mind my e-mail address being shown
Penny F.
(from the U.K.)
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| From: t...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Bare bottom spanking Date: Monday, November 29, 2004
Although this site doesnt seem to promote spanking,it does promote that
spankings should be given on the bare bottom and even the spanking
of teenagers on tight underwear or thong panties for girls and jock straps
for males.I find this information appalling as most teenage girls today wear
thong panties or tiny bikini underwear,so to remove a girls pants or skirt
just about bares her bottom anyhow and a parent has no right to "punish"
their teenagers in that fashion!I grew up in the "60s when spanking teens
was as common as changing your socks ,its nothing but sexual sadism
and perversion in disguise of "discipline"!Do that to an adult and you would
be jailed!
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| From: sharepal@hotmail.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: resending aug 2004 Date: Monday, November 22, 2004
Note: this letter is not anonymized on special request.
I e-mailed your website in February and this is a follow up to that. It is ok to post my e-mail
address when you post this. I sent it in August 2004 and your site says to resend it.
I want to offer advice and support to those single moms and grandparents raising boys that
can be difficult. Please read my posting from February 2004 on
this site to better understand this one. I have befriended several single moms amd grandparents
over the years that are raising boys. I have offered support, advice, and even a firm hand.
Several of the boys that I have befriended over the years have stayed in contact with me. I was
raised by a single mom and I wished I would have had some male guidance growing up (male role
model).Sometimes a youngman needs another man to talk to and do things with such as fishing,
playing sports, and some male guidance. I wished I would have had ths growing up. Boys need
this. I want to offer my support and help anyway I can. If you are a single mother or
grandparent raising a boy or know of a single mom or grandparents raising a boy in need of a
male role model then contact me at my e-mail address.
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| From: b...@hotmail.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Need Spankings Date: Saturday, November 20, 2004
Dear SWL,
My name is B(...), I am a 16 year old male who believes he needs to be spanked for
punishment. By the way, I am completely fine with a bare butt spanking. The last time I was
spanked I was 8 years old. I've asked my parents and relatives to spank me now but they keep
saying no and think I am to old and I completely disagree. I don't really get punished for a lot
of things which I should be like not following through on responsiblilities and etc. I was
wondering if there was any way you could help me?
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| From: s...@hotmail.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Spanking Date: Wednesday, November 10, 2004
Hi, Im 14 years old and my mom says I have behaivior problems. She is trying to come up with a
new way to discipline me because nothing else has worked. I think if she started spanking me I
would behave better but she only spanked me when I was like a toddler and she spanks my ten year
old brother right now so it isn't like she doesn't believe in spanking. i wanted to know a good
way to get my mom to try spankings but I don't want to go up to her and say I want to be spanked
because it would seem a little embarrasing. Can you help me out?
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| From: j...@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Normal Non-Abusive Punishment? Date: Wednesday, November 10, 2004
I am a 15 year old male, I live with my aunt and
uncle. Spanking has been an integral part of my
discipline since I've lived with them. Spankings are
given out for misbehavior now and again. As my uncle
is usually away on business, my aunt is almost always
the one that disciplines me or my cousin (she's 13).
Spankings are not abusive but they do hurt and they
are always given exactly the same way. First she sits
me down and talks to me about what I've done and how I
need to change my behavior and allows me to tell my
side of the story. When we're finished talking we go
someplace private - either the sitting room or my
room. I assume the position which means I drop my
pants and boxers and either bend over the couch and
grab the cushions or bend across the bed and grab the
other side. There is nothing "weird" about bare
bottom spanking - she doesn't make me take off all my
clothes or do "corner time" or anything like that,
it's just the way we've always done it. I've never
thought twice about it before the last few times she
spanked me.
I got spanked about a month ago and as I
dropped my pants and underwear to bend over the couch
I noticed that I had an erection. She didn't say
anything about it and really laid into my bare butt
with her spanking strap. After it was over she asked
about my erection - I told her not to worry because
teenage boys get them all the time. She suggested
that we do it over my boxers as I'm older now. I'm
still not immune to the odd erection in boxers - and
frankly i might as well take my licks on the bare. Do
you agree that this is just a normal teenage guy
thing? Or is this somehow bad or wrong?
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| From: barrykaddress@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: RE: disciplining Date: Sunday, November 7, 2004
Note: this letter is not anonymized on special request. It refers
to the letter dated October 16, 2004.
Dear SWL,
Thanks for your reply! It's really helpful and I've looked at some more of the site info.
Actually if you want to put my name it'll be ok, cos it's my 16th birthday in 10 days! And I'd
really like to hear from other people my age, cos none of my friends talk about this kind of
thing and I don't have anyone else to talk to about it.
Thanks so much,
Kinelle
ps. I'm about to ask my mum soon about it, and I think after reading your info it's bestwith the
bare bum, as it's fairer and more meaningful. I was wondering if you thought it would be best if
I get ready first, or if she removes my clothes etc. I've read all about it on your site, but
it's hard to know how I'll feel until it (hopefully!) happens!! Like, I don't know if it's
better if she pulls down my knickers when I'm on her lap, or before, or if it's possible etc. I
know it's a detail but I really want to get it right and I don't know how it would work, can you
tell me what you find best in this respect? And any tips from readers would be helpful too, if
they've 'been there done that' already! So please add it in, if you can. Thanx!!
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| From: s...@lycos.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: implements page Date: Saturday, November 6, 2004
you have a very good website and i would like to thank you for your contribution
to society.
second i would like you to keep my email address private if you choose to place
my feedback on your website.
now as for my actual feedback i was surprised at the lack of a book on the list
of implements on your website. i was surprised as the book is a very common
implement especialy in christian familys who spank because they beleive the
bible tells them to do so.
thank you
sincerly
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| From: g...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: response and comment to letter sent you on April 5, 2004 Date: Saturday, November 6, 2004
Referencing the writers comments about being spanked in the Girls Restroom in a mall I would
like to say that I agree totally with the girls objections. There is nothing worse than getting
a spanking in a public place ( I Know ). My mom, M(...), wasn't overly strict but if it was
time for me to be spanked - I got spanked - It didn't matter where we were or who was there. If
we were alone or with my sisters she would just smack my bottom or take me over her knee. If we
had company she would say '" you'll have to excuse me somebody needs to have their pants taken
down for a few minutes " and off we'd go. The only problem was we didn't go very far. If the
company was in the living room she'd take me into the kitchen which was just a few feet away
where she would put me over her knee, pull down my pants and spank me. Everyone could hear me
getting spanked and scolded. I'd be crying after the 3rd or fourth smack and promising never to
do it again. When my bottom felt like it was on fire Mom would send me to my room but not before
I was made to apologize to her friends - very embarrassing - Once my cousin Allison, who was at
least 12 years my senior and who had Mom's permission to punish me, was baby-sitting and some of
her friends were there to keep her company, spanked me right in the L\Room in front of them. I
know I deserved the spanking but being spanked across her knees while her friends watched as
Allison administered a thorough bottom warming spanking felt ten times than when Mom would give
me a paddling with her hairbrush in my room. I can only say to the girl who wrote the April 5th
letter I know exactly how you felt.
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| From: lordnykus@bigpond.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: A possible Addition Date: Friday, November 5, 2004
Note: this letter is not anonymized on special request.
Hi
I came to few your site after having it mentioned to me by a young friend whom I am assisting
with he desire to be spanked by her parents. I think the site is excellent and informative with
a non biased approach.
However I have read a number of emails in the feedback section from people who have relised that
they need spanking in their lives and feel that they can not ask or their parents won't spank
them or wish to find someone who will. My suggestion is although you don't advocate spanking
perhaps you could add a section where willing Disciplinarians, after having been suitably vetted
could be listed so that anyone intersted can contact them and relise their needs.
As I have said I feel you have an excellent site and feel free to leave my email addy for any
who wish to reply.
Cheers.
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| From: b...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: My mom Date: Tuesday, November 2, 2004
Hi. I'm an eleven year old girl. My mom wrote you. I got a spanking with my nine year old bro.
We were playing a boarde game and had a good time. But then , he cheated. I got mad and pushed
him. He got up and hit me. we began to slap and hit eachother. I had gave him a bloody nose ,
and he cut my arm when he sctratched me. My mom came in and sent us to the living room. She said
we were acting naughty and she had to teach us our lesson. she pulled my brother over her lap
and began spanking him. he struggled and cryed. after him , i came. I layed across her knee ,
and she spanked me on my bare bottom. i cryed very much and she kept slapping. i bit her so
she'd let me go. she sent me to my room and said i was in big trouble for biting her. my dad
came home and i heard them talking about it. He came to my room and told me i was going to get a
big spanking. he made me pull my underwear to my knee. I had to lay on my bed , and he got the
hairbrush. The slaps came down hard and fast. it felt like it lasted for forerver. my bottom was
red , but i hugged him after. I was glad he did it. I wanted things to be ok with my mom. Do you
think he did the right thing? was i right to feel better after?
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