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| From: g...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: (no subject) Date: Thu, 26 Dec 2002
let me just start by saying that a fathers love for a son is
nothing compared to a mothers love for her daughter. i have been
able to witness that now with my wife and 7 year old daughter.
some of the most touching things that i see go on is the comfort
that my wife gives our daughter. when she gets her feelings hurt
my wife is the first one there to comfort her. and when she does
something wrong, she is the only one who spanks her. 100% out of
love. she makes sure she will make our daughter into a very
respectable lady one day. if she does wrong my wife takes her and
explains to her why and how she is going to be spanked. she always
removes her panties first and then puts her over her lap. then
usually takes a brush and spanks until my wife determines if she
learned her lesson. I just had to write this after reading your
web site. plus I have a question.
when we are in the store my daughter is very selfish and wants
every thing in the store she can see. but i say no and then she
throws a fit. a bad temper. i spanked her on the spot. i just
stood her up and swatted her about 5 times. Her dress was still
on, nothing was humiliating about it and it was just a sper of
the moment thing. what do you think about that? Should I have
done that or should I never do that again?
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| From: e...@attbi.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: website Date: Tue, 17 Dec 2002
Hello,
I really enjoyed your website. It seems very gentle and
loving. Different from the child abuse that occurs when
parents punish their child in anger.
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| From: k...@msn.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: spankings Date: Fri, 13 Dec 2002
hi, im 12 yrs old, and i think i might have emailed you before,
but im not sure. i just think i should get a spanking for everything
wrong i do, especially for cursing, and not doing homework, etc......
but my parents dont spank me, and it's been impossible for me to
talk to them about spanking, [i get all shy and literally cannot
make myself go and talk to them,, dunno why] and I have printed
out the "how can i get my parents to spank me?" page and left it
in my room in places where they would see it when they came in
(i.e. my bed), but i dont know if they have read it, and ignored
it, like they want me to ask them in person, or if they just
haven't read it, or what.
1. what do you think?
2. what should i do?
3. how can i make myself more confident in doing this kind of
thing? (talking to parents about spankings)
4. are there special signs, or things that i can do to "show"
or tell them i wanna be spanked, without actually saying, "i want
to be spanked" ???
5. if i do get an answer from them, and they say no, then what
should i do? ask my friend's parents, or what?
as you can see.. im completely lost in all this, and quite
unsure......... I desperately need a spanking right now, since
some of my grades are really low, and i sometimes dont do any of
my homework, and then just say to myself, "ahh f*** it" or "screw
this, im getting on the computer." etc... i think spankings would
give me more control, and would make me do my homework, dont u think?
i also curse a lot, and even in front of my parents, and i just
somehow know that spankings would help correct all this (along
with the other stuff that i have done, which i havent mentioned
in this email.. if u need to know what they are, then i will
tell u everything) for me, and it would make me more stable,
and maybe even not so insecure, like i feel sometimes. (insecure
might not be the right word for what im saying, but oh well)
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| From: j...@uplink.net
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: anonymous reply Date: Tue, 10 Dec 2002
Please do not put my email address on your website!!!!!!!!
I think you do not give enough attention to the sexual aspects
of spanking. The buttocks are among the most sexual parts of the
body, as well as being close to the genitals. Many children find
being spanked a sexually stimulating experience, and they continue
to seek this experience when they grow up (use "spanking" as a
search term on Google and you will see what I mean). The French
philosopher Rousseau was spanked only twice as a child (at age 11)
and found spanking sexually stimulating for the rest of his life.
The same thing has happened to me.
A spanking on the bare bottom, over the parent's lap, with the
parent's hand, done in the name of love will only make the sexual
aspects more prominent. The child is exposed in a sexually
humiliating way, and is in contact with the parent's warm body
the whole time. This is all the more true if the child is able
to "relax" during the punishment; discomfort in other parts of
the body would be a healthy distraction. Having the child remain
naked afterwards will also increase the sexual humiliation and
make it more memorable. Many spanked children grow up to be
sexually masochistic adults, for whom the "ritual" of spanking,
including taking off clothes, bending over, receiving the blows,
and shame and "humbling" are vital, delicious aspects of the
experience.
If you want your child to grow up to be a sexual masochist, by
all means follow the advice on this website. If not, try some
of the hundreds of websites that detail nonviolent methods of
discipline. (A spanking is INHERENTLY violent.)
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| From: p...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: (no subject) Date: Fri, 6 Dec 2002
i was spanked to the age of 16 and for evening spankings my mom had
a pair of the old fashioned snap bottom flap pajamas and i would
wear them w/out undies and she could simply unsnap the flap and spank
my fanny w/ nothing else in view. day spankings i wore very sheer
panties and if warranted, she arranged them to expose each cheek
seperately.
hope this is helpful.
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| From: m...@webtv.net
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: On Spanking Teenagers Date: Fri, 6 Dec 2002
Dear Spank With Love!
You may remember me because about a year or so ago, my son sent you a
prank e-mail. Again I would like to offer my sincere apologies.
My wife and I both firmly believe that some teenagers (like our son)
should still be spanked. Some 14 or 15 year-olds are quite mature for
their age, and others simply are not. Some will listen to reason and
obey the rules, others on the other hand, will only listen to a good
spanking.
My son B(...) is a very bright boy, but most of the time he behaves as if
he were only about 9 years-old. Since he is now 15, I try to punish him
most of the time by other methods, but every once in a while he pushes
me too far, and he goes across my lap.
After a good spanking, he behaves 1000% better, and for sometime
afterwards too. It really works wonders on him. His most recent spanking
was on Thanksgiving night. He was VERY rude and fresh to his mother
several times during that day in front of company. So that night after
our company had left, I went up to his room and I laid my hand on his
bare bottom until it was as red as a tomato.
As always I spanked him in private without my wife present. Although she
was able to hear the spanking, as well as B(...)'s promises to be good
from our bedroom. She told me later that those sounds were like music to
her ears.
B(...) has been a real "angel" ever since. As I said, a good spanking
always works wonders on him.
I think your website is really great. I agree with you that spanking
should only be done with the hand, and only on the bare bottom. And I
must admit however, that being able to watch B(...)'s bottom turning red
during a spanking, does indeed tend to spur me on to do a thorough job.
The only thing that we differ on is that I don't believe that I need my
son's permission to spank him. When he behaves like a child, I will
treat him like one.
Yours truly,
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| From: j...@zahadum.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Its been a wile Date: Tue, 3 Dec 2002
Dear spank with love
Sorry it has been such a long time since I last e-mailed you but let me
explain.
After my last email I read some more about different types of punishments
and was somewhat changed in my view of spanking. Most of it was new wave
stuff like rewards and reinforcement and such and I was beginning to
reconsider the whole spanking idea. I started to think it wasn’t such a
good idea. So I decided to put off the hole spanking idea and try to just
get along with my parents by helping out and such. So for the past month
or so I just tried to get along as explained and thing just got worse. For
the most part I usually co exist with them but every once I a wile I’d get
in another fight with them, usually with mom. It’s usually over silly
stuff like I want to get on the computer and moms on or I want to watch a
different TV show etc.
My marks were still also very poor at school as
well. As far as the chores and helping go even with my good intentions I
just never bothered doing anything much, so all was pretty much the same as
before. Then one evening I found out my mother had deleted a bunch of
stuff I downloaded to make more room, I was furious and yelled at here
non-stop like a mad man. She actually was afraid I would hurt her.
Afterward I felt terrible and I realized the main problem was that I have
no respect for my parents and especially my mom. I was lying in bed
feeling bad about the whole thing when I remembered all the thought I had
put into spanking and how I thought I would work. I realized that none of
this new wave disciplining would work because of the way I am, very
unmotivated and lazy. All the new wave things took too muck effort and
seemed very sketchy. I decided that the only way I would end up having a
happy relationship with them was if I could get them to spank me the way I
should have been a long time ago. After several spankings, they would have
my respect along with a lesson learned on my part. I would no longer be in
control of the household. So here I am again, I still haven’t gotten the
courage to ask them again to discipline me in this way even though I want
to. I’m afraid what to do if I cant get them to agree; they’ll never look
at me the same again. But I’m sure this is the right form of discipline for
me.
Your help and suggestions are always appreciated.
I have several other questions I’d like to ask.
Firstly if its possible and not too much of a bother could you please send
my your first e-mail and my second e-mail thanks.
If you could send me some suggestions / opinions on spanking contracts,
spanking rituals, corner time and how sever a spanking should be. It would
be greatly appreciated.
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| From: b...@attbi.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: (none) Date: Sun, 1 Dec 2002
I am a fourteen year old girl, who is spanked mainly by my father.
I usually recieve about twenty five swats on the bare bottom with a
brush. I think it is a good method for parents to use if their
children respond to it. I know for myself it is a very good thing
because then I do not feel guilty, I realize what I have done, and
I know my dad has forgiven me. Another important thing, I think, is
to wait with your child until they have calmed and make sure they
know they have paid for what they have done. My father always does
this.
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