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| From: k...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: (no subject) Date: Wednesday, June 29, 2005
spanking is never done "with love". Spanking is hitting and hitting
is not loving. I am a strict, wonderful, involved mother with GREAT
children. They are not spanked, whipped, paddles, belted or whatever
uncivilized people do to their children in the name of discipline or
"gulp" religion. Me & my sibling's weren't either. Just a note, most
people in jail WERE, and the boy from Arkansaw WAS the day before he
shot up the school! So much for it producing good children! A good
parenting or anger management course would be in order in my mind's
eye for people who contribute to your board. People where I live are
educated and don't spank their children. I live in a great town with
great kids. People who spank are simply uneducated about the subject,
or stubborn, misguided people. I have done research on the subject
for the past 8 years, and if you want to debate, e-mail me. Hopefully
you could stop this nonsense, and change your ways.
- Dum Spero, Speri (as long as I breathe, II hope)
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| From: m...@hotmail.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Your website Date: Sunday, June 26, 2005
Hello.
I really appreciate your website, but as a french person, I thought
it would be great if your site was also in french. I had in mind
to make my website with some parts of yours in french, if your are
okay with it.
Can I?
(from France)
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| From: w...@webtv.net
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Getting parents to spank Date: Saturday, June 25, 2005
On the subject of getting parents to spank....As a boy of 11 I got
myself grounded for two weeks. It meant I was going miss baseball and
other fun things. After begging didn't change moms mind I finally asked
if she would just spank me instead...I hadn't been spanked in 2 years
and don't remember them being that bad. She agreed right away. She led
me downstairs to the gameroom... then grabbed a ping pong paddle...put
me over her knee and gave me about 20 good whacks. Now that hurt!! but
I got out of my grounding. One big problem.............She started
spanking me again for bad behavior until I was 13...at least once a
month. Looking back I'm not sure if it was worth it. Some of those
spankings were really hard.
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| From: p...@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: hi Date: Thursday, June 23, 2005
I am a 17 year old boy. and thanks to the help of some of the people
on this website i no long get grounded just spanked. if u need someone
to talk to. because u need to tell ur parents u want to be spanked. or
u don't want to be spanked. i can help. if you want to talk to someone
about ur spanking or just to talk.
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| From: w...@hotmail.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Spanking teenagers Date: Saturday, June 18, 2005
I am 13 and from the UK, I got my first spanking when my parents
recently decided to use a website called the punishment selector.
It gave certain guidlines for spanking teenagers, but after having
read your website they want to make me sign some punishment contract
like something on your website.
I am pleased in a way to be spanked as its much more effective way
of punishing me, and my behaviour has improved. Theres a wonderufl
feeling of forgivness after being spanked I feel.
My parents thought that I should e-mail the site about what exactly
the contract should have in it, before I have just been spanked by
hand, and a few times with the back of a hairbrush. However, they
think that now I am 13 the hand isn't effective enough. Therefore
they have obtained a strap and a cane from the internet.
In my opinion that a bit extreme, but a hand is too mild. Your
website doesn't really say how to spank teenagers in the way of
implements, positions or techniques (I am small enough to go over
my parent's knees). Also they talked about the spankings being on
my knickers or bare, I don't like that idea either!
Can you give me an e-mail back to tell them how a teenager should
be spanked please?
Thanks,
R(...)
(from the UK)
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| From: c...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Previous messages Date: Tuesday, June 14, 2005
Hi
I notice on your wonderful site several recent readers enquiries I
might be able to help with.
I am still very much on the recieving end of paddlings over the knee,
but the following may help the Mom and her son and the wet accidents
during the spankings.
With me also there would sometimes be some cleaning up to do especially
after a longer spanking.
My punishemnts are very much related to the level of naughtiness, and
are on 3 levels.
The third level always means the cane, and it was when I knew a caning
was to follow the paddling and the strap over the knee, that the accidents
began to happen.
Mom always applies a longer message into my bottom when a caning is to
follow, and this is when some strange and not unwanted things take place
down below, and you can be assured this is not unusual.
The 'problem' was sorted out after several 'accidents', when after I had
been taken upstairs after some bad language, I noticed a neat pair of
plastic pants on mum's bed.
This time I was told to strip below the waist, before going over her
knee. I was then ordered to raise my feet, and then I felt the plastic
pants being pulled up tight. The gussets are simply pulled right up to
bare the buttocks so nothing gets in the way of mom's deliberations.
Another recent reader talks of bedtime spankings.
Well this has also been added now, but these are as a reminder of my
place in a strict home under strict parents, and not for punishment.
Every night now, once into bed, I have to leave my blankets down to my
knees, holding the front bed posts, bottom bared. Eventually Mom comes
in with a light cane, we have a little chat and prayer, and then it's a
dozen or so swift whacks which leave quite a sting, but nothing like the
impressions left across my bottom when I need to be punished.
T
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| From: k...@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: spanking Date: Wednesday, June 8, 2005
I am 16 years old andi still get spanking's, it is always over the lap
spankings and usually with either a wooden spoon or paddle (normally the
paddle). i get spanked usually for being disrespectful or not doing what
i am told to do. i think that spanking is a good way to discipline kids
my momma usually (unless i've REALLY been bad) gives me a choice of being
grounded or to get a bare-bottem paddling, i always pick the spanking.
sure it hurts more but it helps me to remember the lesson that I needed
to be taught. i think that parents should always be consistant if they
say that they are going to spank their child then they need to follow up
even if it hours later. we were on a car trip about 2 1/2 hours away from
home and I was being really bad and my mom had told me to stop but i didn't
so she said that as soon as we got home i was going to get a spankin and
sure enough right as we pullde into the garage momma was out of her seat
and unbuckling me, she carried me upstair to her room sat me down on her
lap and asked if i knew why i was being punished and i told her why she
nodded and laid me across her lap took down my shorts and panties and
gave me a good spanking, when she was done she sat me up and said, that
was for being disrespectful and this is for not obeying and listening
the first time and she laid me across her lap and gave me another good
hard paddling. i cried and cried but after she took me to my room and
put me to bed i told her that i loved her for still even though i was
so old giving me spankings to teach me how to be good
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| From: c...@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: 13 year old Date: Tuesday, June 7, 2005
Hi, I have a 13 year old boy whom just asked me to
spank him when he is bad. I agreed and he showed me
your site. This site is very useful but I was
wondering what would be the best implement to spank
him with and how should I. (over the knee or over two
pillows?) I fell that my hand would not be strong
enough so should I use one of his ping-pong paddles?
The last question is how many times should I spank him
and please give me some examples of when to spank a
little and allot.
Thanks!!!
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| From: b...@aol.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: Another spanking Date: Sunday, June 5, 2005
Hello. It's been a while since I've gotten a spanking , but I finally
got another one last night. My daddy just got back from a buissniess trip.
He asked me how my day had been. I told him how it was all good , but
that Mommy was being a butthead. He went to talk to my mom and ask what
had been going onn. she said that she had told me to clean my room and
do the dishes by the time she got home frum shopping. she got home and
i didn't do it and she kept telling me how she wanted me to go upstairs
and that i was getting a spanking. i wouldn't go. my daddy and mommy
went into the living room and daddy set me on the coucch. he told me
that he was going to spank me for being a bad girl and not listening
to my mommy. i said no and ran out of the room. mommy chased after me
up the stairs and daddy came too. they took me into their bedroom and
daddy pulled me over his knee. he said that i was going to get a VERY
hard spanking now until it made me cry and kick. he took down my pantts
and undies. he spanked my bottom very hard with his hand. then he
spanked me with a belt. my bottom was sore when we were done. they both
hugged me and told me that i was a good girl, but that if i did another
thing like that they were gonna spank me right infront of my grandparents.
is that right???
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| From: i...@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: my spanking story Date: Saturday, June 4, 2005
Hi SWL,
I'm a 17 year old girl who has a story to tell. It
all started about 3 months ago. my parents were
going to las vagas for a week and i had to stay at my
best friends house while they were gone. i was very
exicted to be staying with her for a whole WEEK!!!
When i first walked into the house my freind and her
mom were standing right in the family room. i just
thought they just wanted to great me and welcome me
into their house. what they really want to talk to me
about was how they were going to discpline me over the
week. she asked me what i got if i did something
wrong in my house, i said i got grounded. she said
that she doesn't beleive in grounding and asked me
whether i would like to be spanked like my friend is
(who is also 17!) or she could ground me if i wanted.
i had never been spanked before and always wondered
what it would be like. i choose to be spanked if i
did something wrong. her mom got all excited and
hugged me. we have a good realationship because i'm
always over at thier house. she is like another mom
to me. she said she would spank me as if i were her
own daughter. i said that was fine.
(...)
i never told my parents about
the spankings and niether did her mom. but whenever i
feel like i did something wrong i go over to her house
and ask to be spanked for it!!! i will continue to do
this for the rest of my life. i feels so good to have
someone you love spanking you when you are wrong. the
guilt just lifts off my shoulders. thats my story.
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| From: d...@yahoo.fr
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: (none) Date: Saturday, June 4, 2005
Hello SWL, I'm a 17-year-old French teenager who'd like to be spanked
by his father. Indeed, even if it could be seam strange, i'd prefer
if my father whipped my bums instead of grouding me. What do you think
about that ?
Thanks
P.S. : sorry for my awful English...
(from France)
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| From: hopehassan@yahoo.com
To: spankwithlove@hotmail.com Subject: new mum Date: Thursday, June 2, 2005
Note: this letter is not anonymized on special request.
Dear sir/madam,
I'm writing because I've got a problem that I don't
know what the right answer is. I'm a 17 yr old girl
living in Leicester, England, and my dad (who I live
with) has recently remarried, after my mum died eight
years ago. I was born in England but my family is
originally from Pakistan, and dad's new wife has just
come to England from Pakistan.
she is very young, actually only 23 years old, so not
very much older than me (!), and she looks really
young too. I think partly because of this we've not
been getting along very easily, so I've been a bit
difficult (but she has too, I think). Anyway, last
month she said to me that whenever I misbehave, she is
going to spank me across her knee, and that I have to
do it because she is now my new mum and guardian.
I don't think this is fair because she isn't much
older than me, and it's so humiliating to have to bend
over her knee in just my knickers while she takes her
time spanking me with her hand like a little child. my
dad says that in Pakistan this is normal, but none of
my English friends get spanked, and I don't think it's
fair because she's so young and it's so embarrassing!
but at the same time she is my new mum, and it does
make me think twice before being naughty. also, it's
better than my dad doing it because I think I'm too
old now to be spanked by a man, and he didn't do it
before either. but I just can't believe it, sometimes
people think we are sisters, and we might be having an
argument like sisters and then suddenly she'll just
clap her hands and point to her knee, and I have to
lift up my skirt and present myself to her across her
lap!
do you think this is fair? it just seems so
humiliating because she is so young, but I don't know
if I should make her stop because she is still my mum.
please help!
ps. I don't mind you keeping my email address on,
because it's a private one, but don't put my name please.
(from the UK)
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