Miche & Rowe Hoffer

Maui, HI - April 4, 2004

Maui, in all its splendor, was never as beautiful as it was on 04-04-04.  As I walked down the grassy knoll of the SeaWatch in Wailea, with my most beloved niece, best friend, and matron of honor leading the way, I saw the faces of some of the dearest people in my life, looking up at me with happiness and joy in their hearts as they celebrate with us on our special day.  On this day, I am walking down to my heart’s desire; I am walking towards him, the man I am about to marry.

  

    It was a short and sweet ceremony,   touching and sentimental, but also with some funny moments that hopefully were caught on video (or perhaps, I should hope were not!).  I was not told that my groom was “wired” with a microphone, therefore I was not on “edit” mode.  Chatsie (my matron of honor) said I made so many funny comments on the side as the minister was doing his bit.  Miche surprised me with a wedding band (we had agreed that my engagement ring was enough), and when I saw that the minister had more than 2 rings in his hand, I apparently said under my breath, “hmmm...2 plus 1 equals 3...3 rings!”  And, at one point at the ceremony, I looked at Tommy (the best man), then whispered to Miche that Tommy looked like a stop light.  Tommy (having flown in from Sweden) was so gungho to get a tan in a matter of one day, hence was looking a bit sunburned.  And with him wearing a green shirt (our color motif was green), he truly looked like a stop light!

 In spite of the quirky things that happened, Miche and I did cry at our ceremony.  (And of course the quirky side of me showed up again and called him a big cry baby and that he is making my mascara run!)

  

It was a gorgeous evening, the sun was just about to set, and there were whales were playing in the ocean.  Even the sound of a car with a bad case of engine trouble driving by was not heard by me (it was reported to me by the guests later on).  I could only hear the minister’s words, mine and Miche’s. I couldn’t wait to have the ceremony be over, be announced as “husband and wife” and be able to start the party!

 

The reception was lovely, and I had such a good time!  I was told the food was fantastic (hard to really eat at your own wedding) and there was no shortage of tropical drinks, champagne and wine from the open bar (that part I was able to enjoy!).  My biggest stress was that my tables weren’t going to be set properly (the event planner in me!)..to the exact detail that I wanted.  Thankfully, my handmaidens extraordinaire (Reggie Reyes & Joy Jimenez) did a superb job in laying out the tables the way I had wanted them to be set.  I couldn’t leave that important task to the wait staff, not after me working on my own table decors and centerpieces!

 

Loved ones came from all over: Miche’s parents, his best man (Tommy, the stop light), Tommy’s brother, flew in from Stockholm.  Guests came all the way from San Francisco, from New York, from Miami, from Vietnam (thanks, Reggie and Pierre-Jean).  It really meant the world to Miche and I to have these wonderful people take the time out of their busy schedules to be with us (and to think we picked the busiest, hardest, most expensive time to travel to Hawaii).

 

After the dinner reception, we headed for the Four Seasons’ lounge for more revelry.  By this time, I could barely see straight (hahaha)...but of course, it was hard to miss the governor of California and his wife!  Arnold and Maria were at the Four Seasons the same time we were staying there - it was sort of odd to see him so up close and personal each day at breakfast and lounging by the pool!  (Yes, he was nice...always said hello..and no, he isn’t as big as he appears on the screen.)

 

And as most brides lament...our wedding came and went too quickly.  We were engaged for two years (he proposed while we were in Maui too)  and I planned the wedding for almost a year.  Wish the evening played out in slow motion!  But luckily, guests were on Maui for many days before and after the special day.  We had several fun activities lined up while on Maui, and that made the “wedding feeling” last longer.

 

On the night before the wedding, we had a luau complete with pig and hula girls (the pig was cooked, and the hula girls danced...just making sure we are straight on that).  The day after the wedding, we had a beach luncheon picnic and then a cake and champagne party (we had so much cake left!).  2 days after, we had a snorkeling trip to Molokini (a marine preserve off of Maui), and of course several “spa days” for the gals and golfing for the boys.

 

Maui is done...the pictures are such a pleasure to go over.  Now I look forward to the local (SF) marriage celebration party  in July and also the Sweden celebration party in August, where Editha will be in attendance, and hopefully, Reggie and PJ as well (anyone else going to be in Europe around early August?).

 

If you’d like to see the online photo album from Maui...go to:

 

www.eventpix.com

click on: event guest

search for “recent event”, type in McGee & Hoffer wedding

password is 162wedding

 

Our photos will be “live” on this site thru end of June

 

That’s it for now, off this article goes to Cres for posting.  My warm regards to each of you and I can’t wait for our big reunion in 2006.

 

Over and out,

Rowe Lapina Hoffer

 


 

 

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