I will never understand the need of everyone to so meticulously qualify love. My opinion is that love is the one emotion that defies all definition. If I love, need there be a reason? Admitedly, one must be careful of the line between love and lust. Illusions of love can be tough without a definition to the feeling itself, but you just have to take your time about it. Figure it out. I have in a very few cases and I resent the fact that so many people wish to rip that away from me. Why is it so horrible to love someone? And jsut because I am angry with the actions of a person, why is it that I can't still love them? I'm not going to just suddenly say I hate everyone who ever made me cry or hurt me. The people who hurt me most, only did so becuase they were those I felt I loved the most. So why am I suddenly at fault for caring? This is something I do not understand. Something I can't comprehend from those who claim to love me back. You love me, but I can't care about what happens to you because... ? And it's shit like this that leaves me shelving you. I will love what I know is there and ignore the rest that you've allowed to corrupt you. Everyone changes. For the worse. So I'll put the worst aside becuase I don't want to hate you. I love you too much for that no matter what you do to me. note in the above passage you is used in the plural sense