Creed

Above all else He chereishes His submissive, in the knowledge that the give she gives is the greatest gift of all. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Him but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from the precious gift.

He is in control of Himself first and foremost, so that He might control others. As a stern demanding Dominant, He can make his sub cry real tears. As the consumate lover, He will kiss them away, without steping out of character.

In times of trouble, the Dominant will leave their roles behind, to be a supportive partner and freind, never forgetting this is a loving caring relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never as a submissive to put Him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure.

To win his submissive's mind body and soul, he knows that he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive kindness, humor, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction.

He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, He will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on and depend on.

He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences, he also knows there is no inferiority between those differences.

When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obeidience, he is a strong unyeilding proffessor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without reason. When he does it is always with a careful caring hand.

He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her inner cuourage new heights.

He is always open to comunication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.

He never has to demand ritual behaviour from her. She responds to him out of the want to please him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please not from the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him.

He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Stong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit, and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truely holds.