In this lifestyle the Dominant rules over the submissive. But there is so much more to it. There is the trust and faith in the other. There is the wanting to please the other. There is the understanding of how the other feels. There is the love and commitment that is shown from both.
This lifestyle is a journey into the hearts souls and minds of the one you are with.
In this lifestyle the relationship is built on trust and faith. There are some things that without the trust and understanding of the other then one could get hurt. Cause if you dont take the time to get to know the one that you are with and where their limits are then you know not how far to push those limits.
In this lifestyle you should always use safe words. The safe words are to let the one you are with know that they have got to that point that it is no longer pleasureable and that you are ready to stop.
In this lifestyle the Dominant gets pleasure from pleasing the submissive and she submissive takes great pleasure and honor in pleasing the Dominant. This is not just as in a sexual pleasures. The respect that the submissive should show the Dominant is a great factor in the pleasing. For the Dominant is the Top, the one that is in controll, the one that tells when enough is enough. The submissive should respect the Dominants wishes and do everything in their power to please that Dominant.
The submissive should kneel before the Dominant showing their submission. Their eyes should be lowered showing the trust that they hold and the respect.
The relationship should be built and the trust and respect earned.
