Teaching By Example

by Henry Matthew Ward

When I got mad and hit my child "For his own good," I reconciled,

And then, I realized my plight... today, I taught my child to fight.

When interrupted by the phone, I said, "Tell them I'm not at home."

And then I thought and had to sigh... today, I taught my child to lie...

I told the tax man what I made, forgetting cash that I was paid;

And then I blushed at this sad feat... today, I taught my child to cheat.

I smuggly copied a cassette, to keep me free of one more debt.

But now the bells of shame must peal.., today, I taught my child to steal.

Today, I cursed another race. Oh God, protect what I debase,

For now I fear it is too late... today I taught my child to hate.

By my example, children learn that I must lead in life's sojourn

In such a way that they are led by what is done, not what is said.

Today, I gave my child his due by praises for him instead of rue.

And now I have begun my guide today, I gave my child his pride.

I now have reconciled and paid to IRS on all I've made.

And now I know that this dear youth... today has learned from me, of truth.

The alms I give are not for show, and yet, this child must surely know

That charity is worth the price; Today, he saw my sacrifice.

I clasp within a warm embrace my neighbor of another race.

The great commandment from above. Today I taught my child to love.

Someday my child must face alone. This world of fearsome undertone,

But I have blazed a sure pathway: Today, I taught my child...to pray.

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