From: cs-text-weekday-reply@SoupServer.com
I "Heard" the Love
When I was growing up I do not recall hearing the words "I
love you" from my father. When your father never says them to
you when you are a child, it gets tougher and tougher for him
to say those words as he gets older. To tell the truth, I could
not honestly remember when I had last said those words to him
either. I decided to set my ego aside and make the first move.
After some hesitation, in our next phone conversation I blurted
out the words, "Dad . . . I love you!"
There was a silence at the other end and he awkwardly
replied, "Well, same back at ya!"
I chuckled and said, "Dad, I know you love me, and when
you are ready, I know you will say what you want to say."
Fifteen minutes later my mother called and nervously asked,
"Paul, is everything okay?"
A few weeks later, Dad concluded our phone conversation
with the words, "Paul, I love you." I was at work during this
conversation and the tears were rolling down my cheeks as I
finally "heard" the love. As we both sat there in tears we
realized that this special moment had taken our father/son
relationship to a new level.
A short while after this special moment, my father
narrowly escaped death following heart surgery. Many times
since, I have pondered the thought, If I did not take the first
step and Dad did not survive the surgery, I would have never
"heard" the love.
By Paul Barton
from A Cup of Chicken Soup for the Soul
Copyright 1996 by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor
Hansen & Barry Spilchuk
Text file Source (historic): geocities.com/stauffer_james/Literature
geocities.com/stauffer_james(to report bad content: archivehelp @ gmail)
|
|
|
|
|