The Engagement Story of Steve & Andrea
Settling the Questions You're Dying to Know


This is the story about how two people fell in love and how I (Steve) proposed to Andrea. It all started in Rochester, Minnesota, where we were staying with my parents. We left there on the morning of Monday, June 18th, and it was sunny, hot, and humid day. We had plans to spend the night camping at Gooseberry Falls State Park on the Scenic North Shore of Lake Superior. When I was a geology student at the University of Minnesota - Duluth, it was a short drive to the state park. I went there every autumn to take in the incredible scenery of the leaves changing colors and to hike the park's many trails. Gooseberry Falls gets its name from the Gooseberry River which cascades over layers of lava floes on its way to Lake Superior. If you ever get the chance to see it, it is well worth any detour. At any rate, Gooseberry Falls State Park is a special place to me and has been since my college years.

Anyway, back to the story. We get to Two Harbors (a small town 40 minutes north of Duluth) and buy our provisions for the evening and breakfast next morning, then head on up to the park. We get there at about 6:00 and immediately set up our tents because the weather was no longer hot and steamy, but rather cold and foggy with a steady light mist. I was disappointed to see the fog when we approached Duluth on I-35 because I love the scenic overlook from the rest area right as you go over the last hill and can see out over much of the city below. Fortunately, however, the heavy fog cleared up a little bit on our drive north to the park.

In my mind, I had pictured how I would propose to my future bride, and if it was going to be at night, it would be next to the moonlight dancing off the Lake or during a beautiful, cloudless, sunny day. I went to the bathroom to collect my thoughts and to think over my strategy. I came up with the idea that I would ask Andrea if she wanted to go for a walk before we ate dinner - if she did, I would propose; if she didn't, it would take place on Tuesday with hopefully better weather conditions. She wanted to go for a walk. *gulp!*


I remember much of Gooseberry, but had never been in the camping portion of it, so I was a little bit disoriented in terms of where we were. I wanted to propose where the river meets the lake because it is more scenic there and because it would be an easy place to find if we were to ever revisit such an important place. The only problem is I didn't know where it was in relation to the campground. So we started out on our hike, me with a large bulge in my pocket because of the ring box which I sincerely hoped Andrea wouldn't notice. I made sure she was always walking on my left! We walk toward the sound of waves, which turned out to be pounding on the concrete-lined shore. They were so loud! The drizzle picked up a bit and got on my glasses. I wondered whether it would be best just to wait until tomorrow.

The trouble was we were not very close to the river bay, so we had to hike along the shoreline, which is very rocky and potentially slippery in the mist. Carefully, we made our way toward the river and came to a place where a separate island of rock was connected to the shoreline by a few fallen trees. The picture below was taken by Andrea as she was content to watch her boyfriend have a little fun. But fun wasn't the only thing on my mind, of course, and I was toying with the idea of proposing to her from across the ravine - only about 10 feet away. I asked if she could hear me and she could, but I decided against it.


After climbing back down and back to the shore where Andrea was, we made our way across one more wave-swept bay and finally came to the place where the river meets the lake. As soon as we got down to the area (we had to hike around and come down from behind it because it was too steep from the direction we were coming from), the small shelter and the railing which protects the hikers from falling down a small cliff into the lake came rushing back from memories of college-day hiking. As she stood behind me with her arms around me, the conversation went like this:
A: Wow, I've never felt your heart beating so fast before!
S: It must be from the rock climbing....
A: Oh. But it's just beating so fast!

I paused for a few seconds because it was pretty clear - at least to me - that the gig was up. Also, realize that I'm wearing a t-shirt, fleece pull-over, and a rain jacket, so if she is feeling my heart beating through all that, something's going on! So I turned to her and told her that rock climbing wasn't the reason why my heart was beating so fast. I proposed right there. I won't get into the exact dialogue of what I said, but I remember her whispering, "Oh my gosh" under her breath as I pulled the ring box from my pocket. I got down on one knee and slipped the ring on her finger as she was saying, "Yes" to the question of, "will you marry me?"


We hugged and cried a little for a while, then we went into the small shelter right there. I didn't have this part planned at all. But we went in, and I got down on both knees, asked her to do the same, and I prayed for our engagement in that it would be a period of continued purity and that it would be glorifying to God. After all, He is the reason we're together - there is no doubt in my mind that it is well beyond coincidence. All I remember about the prayer is that everything just came out of my so fluently and smoothly - like I had been planning this for years rather than seconds. It was clear that Andrea was moved by this because she commented later that there were no "uh's" or "umm's" at all. Typically, if I don't have something all planned out, I use fillers like those, but I believe this was a case of the Holy Spirit leading me and helping me be more like Aaron than Moses. Anyhoo, then came the taking of the pictures....

Just about every time we try to take a timed picture with her camera, we end up having an adventure. This case was no different. We ended up setting the camera in the window sill pointing toward Lake Superior and we would be in front of the railing. After I took a failed picture of her alone (no timer), she took over and got the timer light to come on for the next exposure. Unfortunately, there are some water pump pipes in that section of the shelter, which delayed her in getting out to stand by me by the time the timer went off. In the process of running, her hat flew off and we were both laughing when the flash went off (her hat is missing in one picture and we both have big smiles! She also stuck out her hand in a karate-chop-like move to show the ring milliseconds before the flash went off.) - I couldn't tell if she had gotten into position it was so close. So we took another one and this time, she was able to get around the pipes in plenty of time for the picture.


As it turned out, Tuesday was that perfect, sunny day I had imagined for a daytime proposal. Oh well. After we got back to the campsite that night, we had a nice, romantic evening cuddled together around a toasty fire. The weird thing was that it sounded like it was raining in the trees all around us, but no rain seemed to be hitting our raincoats. It started raining in earnest just as we were saying our goodnight and going to our respective tents. This was probably about the time that Siren, Wisconsin, was being hit by the tornado if you remember that.

So there you have it, folks. That's how we got engaged. I have some other pictures below with captions to explain them. Our relationship has been a dream for me - everything I have ever hoped for in a perfect match is personified in my bride-to-be. The engagement was just the next natural step in what I hope will be long a prosperous lifetime together.
~ Steve


Andrea's additions:
When Steve went to the bathroom (now I know he was collecting his thoughts about whether to propose), I was thinking to myself that it would be okay if he didn't propose because I knew it would happen sometime -- and hopefully soon! On the drive up, he had managed to put some doubts in my mind that he would be proposing by saying that he hoped to have some time alone with my dad after we finished camping and joined my family at a reunion in central Minnesota. I thought he had asked for my dad's blessing while my family was here for Easter (as it turns out, I was right). Even though the weather didn't totally cooperate with us on that Monday evening, I wouldn't have changed a thing - the proposal on that foggy evening was perfect. I am so thankful Steve took the opportunity to pray for the two of us right after he popped the question. One of the reasons I love him so much is because he trusts God to guide his life - just as God will guide our marriage as we continue to pray and continue to seek Him. Oh, and I love the ring!
~ Andrea
More Pictures


Where it all happened - the next day with sun!


The shiny piece of metamorphosed graphite adorning Andrea's digit