The shortest of my Question blogs, but the most important for me because fear of rejection has always been one of my problems
Okay, I've said this before but I'm gonna say it again. I've always had a big fear of rejection. I'm sure that's part of the reason I've been so shy all my life. I used to find it impossible to talk to girls, and I still have that problem sometimes. It depends on the subject, the situation, and the girl.
We all want to be loved and accepted... that's why we try so hard to find someone who gives us that. Being rejected makes us feel like we're unloved and worthless, at least for a little while. It hurts knowing that someone you want to be with doesn't want you back.
I've been in pain of one kind or another all my life. Some of that pain is physical, some is physical and self-inflicted, some of emotional. The pain that comes with being rejected is emotional, unless you were a total jerkoff, then it might be physical. :P But it's still pain, and like all pain, you have to learn to deal with it.
So, on the topic, here's my advice to everyone. Keep looking for that someone for you, and try not to let rejection hurt you too much. Remember, if they reject you without getting to know you, then they weren't worth your time anyway.