Simply put, this is what I look for in a woman. Subject to change!
It's that time again... time for me to think about what I'm looking for in a woman... and to help the hordes of women out there who want me so bad (yeah right!), I thought I'd post those thoughts here. I've done this before, but it's been a while and although most of that is still true, a few things have changed... here's the old list:
Something Serious - I've never been one for casual relationships, one-night-stands, or anything like that. It just doesn't work for me. If I get involved with someone, I'm in it for love, happiness, and everything. If you get involved with me, it's got to be serious.
Someone Who's Real - Being fake might get you somewhere at the beginning, but if you're not who you present yourself as, that's going to seriously hurt things with me. I want someone who is real, who can show me the real person she is.
Someone Who's Honest - Honesty is one of the most important things I'm looking for. If we're together, I'm going to be honest with you. I expect the same from you.
I want someone who wants some of the same things as I do, shares at least some of my interests, someone that I can connect with and understand, at least a little. Someone who likes to have fun, but doesn't have to party and drink all the time to be having it. Someone who has experienced life, has taken a few falls, and has seen what life can be like. Someone who can be just as happy spending a quiet night with me as she is if we go out on the town. Someone who has maybe had her heart broken, but still believes in love. Someone who wants me to know her, know her past life, and to understand how the world has made her the person she is today...
Someone Mature - I'm 25 years old now... time to be past childish drama-for-the-sake-of-drama and stuff like that. Don't get me wrong, acting immature can be fun and highly entertaining... I just don't want that all the time. There's a time for letting your inner child out and a time for at least acting like an adult (and every time I hear the words inner child, I'm reminded of the song that says "I'd like to find your inner child and kick it's little ass" :P )
Someone Intelligent - I love to talk and I love to listen to others talk, so if you can't find a coherent sentence with two hands and a flashlight, we're probably not gonna get very far. I want someone who can hold a conversation and teach me something new about something each time. You don't have to be a rocket scientist, brain surgeon, or anything like that... just smart... or can at least fake it really well lol
Someone Understanding... I am who I am, and I'm working on being who I want to be. That may or may not fit into exactly what you want, and I'll listen to what you have to say about it, but in the end I'm going to be me. That means that sometimes I'll take your advice, suggestions or whatever, and sometimes I won't... it all depends.
Someone "Beautiful"... To me, being beautiful is way more than just what you look like. It's looks, personality, sense of humor, intelligence, and a lot of other things. This also varies from person to person. I find different people beautiful for different reasons. Odds are, if we're talking and there's attraction or chemistry or anything between us, that means I find something about you to be beautiful. This is the hardest one to list... because it's either there or not...
Now taking all that into account, what are the odds of my ever finding someone like that, who's single and interested in me? Probably not very good, but who knows. Stranger things have happened. If you think this sounds like you, ask yourself this question... Are you willing to show me who you are? If the answer is no, then thank you for reading this. If the answer is yes, then you know where to find me... See you soon.