Disciplining Our Children

Disciplining our children is the ingredient to producing a GOD fearing young man or young woman. However some individuals do not believe that discipline is neccessary, spare the rod and spoil the child. What does this mean does this mean we should beat our children with rod's when they do something wrong. No that is not what this means spare the rod and spoil the child means that when a young person does something wrong and he or she is not disciplined. In some way shape or form then you are sparing the child from being discipline, and he the child grows older and does something wrong they will go in to the world and do worser things and think that they will be spared.Your lack of discipline you will ruin your childs life. Now lets take a look at life the majority of adults who were disciplined, when they were in their youth say that when they were younger they did not understand what their parents meant by I discipline you because I love you. As the they got older they realize and have to admit that they are happy and now understands why their parents did this. Now these people are not sinless none of us on this earth. Every human being on this earth has commited some type of sin some extremely more advance than others, but they are successful, productive, human beings and those who decided to go a stray they will always come back to their training. Even if it is on their death bed or has life imprisioned. Now if you go a stray you can only come back to something if you trained, that way but without discipline without knowing what is right from wrong because your parents did not install that in you what can you go back on. GOD loves us all but he loves us enough to let us choose who and what we believe and serve in therefore he will send messangers to give you the word and give you a chance to hear the true word of GOD. However, GOD does not force on us his word, he will give you chance to come unto him. Disciplining a child lets them know that what there doing is wrong and by doing that you let them know that it is not appropiate in your house or anyone elses. If you do not discipline the child they will think that crying to get what they want and they get it is the right thing to do. So as they progress in life they may turn to stealing because they will think it is the right thing to do because when they were little and you let them cry and get everything they want that as long as they get what they wan no bad can come of it. Now we all know that this paradigm is a fallicy in some many ways if you steal you go to jail, if you do wrong you are punished. If you do not discipline your children your children will hate you as they grow and blame their downfalls on you say that you ruined their lives and for this GOD will hold you accountable. A child sins is their parents until they are the age of twelve then from that point on all their sins are theres.

Therefore if you do not discipline your child when they are young then you are setting them up for an abortive life and will have to account for that on the day of judgement. If you were disciplined when you were a child and did not like it well look at your life and look at the lifes of those who are not disciplined who's life is more productive who's life is more successful. 90% of the time the child who was disciplined will be the more successful. However, even if you are not disciplined you can still live a productive life in GOD but only when you have successfully given your life to GOD. Discipline is the first step you must also install the values of GOD in your child thats the only way discipline will work. Do not give into your children's wrong discipline them, make sure you teach them the things that GOD would have them to do . If you need help or advice on how to discipline your child email me at striver2000@hotmail.com remember those who seek shall find!