EROTIC BATHING
By Jeni, Proud Slave of Sir Richard
Erotic bathing is basically done for two reasons in our house. The first is to spend some quality time with my Master in a very intimate service and the second is to get him clean. To do both is fairly easy after you get into a routine. i use ivory soap on him because we do not want to use a harsh soap, like a deodorant soap, since it is on the skin longer during the erotic bath than is normal. We also have found that a creamy soap leaves a slick on the floor of the tub that can be dangerous. Find a soap that works for your Dominant. We would also recommend a water saver shower head as this can take some time. An erotic bath in our house is often 20 minutes long. We are lucky to have an 82 gallon solar water heater but not everyone is as lucky there as we are. And because of the length of time that this takes, we only get to do it about twice a week, so i make it as special as i can.
Our baths are done in the bathtub with Master standing down by the shower head. Since he is a lot taller than i am, he washes his own hair (his bending for me to do it would rapidly become uncomfortable). His bath is started with him wetting down his entire body. i then start by washing his face, soaping my hands and taking time to massage his temples, ears, cheeks and chin. Remember not to rush any of this time as you will want to see what types of pressure your Dominant likes, what places, what types of touching and then modify the next bath to include these. After i am done washing his face he rinses and puts his hands on his head for me.
Now, with soap bar in hand, i will wash the arm pits, underside of his arms and his sides. When i finish there he will place one hand on my shoulder and allow the other to drop to his side. i wash his arm with plenty of lather and spend a lot of time massaging the hand. This is one of those spots that most people enjoy having massaged, especially the area at the base of the thumb. He will rinse that arm before i move to the next, which is done in the same manner.
Next i do the chest, and, since i am allowed to enjoy bath time too, i spend a bit of extra time on those dirty little nipples and all that chest hair. Actually the endocrine system is above the breasts and is a wonderful place to massage with the heel of the hand.
If you and your Dominant are of equal size or you are larger, you may find that now is a wonderful time to use yourself as a sponge. i can't do this since Master is too tall but it is wonderful to have it done to you...soap your chest and genital area very well and wrap your arms around the Dominant. While hugging fairly tightly, rub against them, moving up and down, side to side. If you are a hairy male, you are suddenly a loofa!!! You can also do the back this way.
After doing the chest, i move down to the genitals. Now, they can be filthy, you know, so i really do need to spend a lot of time there, and often i get lost in thought while stroking his cock. Lots of soap here makes it really fun to give a hand job, if the Dominant allows. If we have had anal play i do soap the area thoroughly from the navel down the tops of the legs and all the area in between. Master then rinses and i rinse the soap and my hands and start again. You can also use anti-bacterial soap, and sherri suggested Dawn dish detergent works well too here.
If you are bathing a Domme you will want to be gentle with the genital area, too much soap for too long can become ouchy. One fun thing to do for a Domme is to soap your arm and use it was a sponge, rubbing it back and forth from clit to anus. Just be careful not to bring bacteria from the rear to the front. After you are done with her genitals, please make certain she is well rinsed as you don't want soap burn there.
Next come the legs. Master puts one at a time on the side of the tub for me. He makes certain he has wet the leg well first and i massage his legs making a lot of lather. Most people will enjoy a foot massage but i also make certain to clean between each toe and all areas on the foot. A nice way to massage for Master is to apply firm pressure on the heel with one hand and lesser but still fairly firm pressure on the instep with the fingers of the other hand. Be careful with nails if you have them, bottoms of feet are sensitive. Also, i don't recommend tickling, Dominants seem to have problems with this. To show Master i am done with his feet, i do a massage pulling upward on the ankle tendon.
Master carefully rinses his leg and foot before standing on it and putting his other leg up on the side of the tub for it's turn at a washing.
If you are not able to do the feet in the tub, you may want to offer a massage after the bath with the Dominant on the bed, foot massage is really something that is very enjoyable and Dominants usually deserve the extra treat after a long week at work.
Finally comes my favorite part of the bath, the back. Master turns to face the shower, puts one leg up on the side of the tub and puts his hands on the front of the shower stall, giving me better access to the butt. This is a time when i always ask a question, "Sir, would you like prostrate massage today?"
Starting at the shoulders, i very thoroughly soap his back up, i then soap up my right hand very well. If he wants a massage, i make certain that my nail is not too long, if it is i will use a glove or a finger cot on that finger. If i am to massage him, i will gently slide my finger into the ass. Once inside about halfway, i slowly turn the hand over so that my palm is facing down. Master loves to be scratched so the massage is accompanied by a back scratching with the other hand. i usually do a circular scratch at the same speed that i massage the prostate in a circular direction. i watch his reaction and make certain to go slowly and carefully, this is not a time to rush. Master often cums from the massage (but does not ejaculate).
If you are not doing a prostate massage, soap up the hand well and slide it between the cheeks to scrub away all dirt and bacteria. i use fairly firm pressure here.
If you are bathing a Domme you may want to negotiate a bit before this part also. Find out if she would like anal penetration, vaginal with g-spot or clitoral or all or none of the above. With a bit of practice you should be able to do clit & g-spot with one hand.
The fun part of the back washing (and don't tell the Dominant this) is that you can draw pictures on their back without them knowing...Master thinks i just enjoy scratching him, but i am actually drawing complex designs in the soap, erasing them and starting again. It's a lot like finger painting!!!
After you are done with the back, the Dominant will rinse off and kiss you on the forehead and thank you for your ministrations. Then it is time for you to quickly bath yourself.
Remember to watch & learn, expanding on what you do by seeing what turns the Dominant on. Enjoy this and make it part of your routine and your Dominant will feel very special and loved by you. And, if possible, have fun with it, make it a joy for both of you, something that you look forward to.
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