NOTE:
This checklist was developed by: Tammad Rimilia For each item, you need to provide two answers:
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient/target of the activity. |
| Note from ~Rhianna~ - From time to time, update your version of this list, as you gain experience :) Your partners in the future would like to know all there is to know about you!!! |
Activity |
Experience Yes/No |
Desired? |
Notes / Nuances |
| Abrasion | No |
?? |
Have heard of it, but ??? |
| Age Play | Yes |
2 |
RP of School girl ~ was ok… not all the time though |
| Anal sex | Yes |
4 |
Oh yes, love it, not everytime.. but often is very nice! |
| Anal plugs (small) | Yes |
3 |
Depending on size, they will fall out easily… |
| Anal plugs (large) | Yes |
4 |
Depends again, on size of large… can be fun! J |
| Anal plugs (underclothing) | Yes |
2 |
Have done this at work for 2 hours, was hell… kept coming out… it was hell |
| Animal roles | No |
No |
Not for me… |
| Arm & leg sleeves | No |
???? |
These are GREAT ~ LOVE THEM! |
| Aromas | Yes |
5+ |
I am a chick... make a guess :) |
| Asphyxiation | No |
No |
No thank you, I DO like Breathing… |
| Auctioned for Charity | No |
No |
Have heard it is fun… but I am not sure I would want that… |
| Ball stretching | N/A |
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| Bathroom use control | No |
No |
Not funny… L |
| Bestiality | No |
No |
HARD LIMIT ~ NO |
| Beating (soft) | Yes |
4 |
Yes… this is very nice… |
| Beating (hard) | Yes |
4-5 |
Not ALL the time… but depending on what this is… |
| Blindfolds | Yes |
4-5 |
I really like these…but I also like eye contact too… about ½ and ½ |
| Being serviced | Yes |
0-1 |
Not really my fav |
| Being bitten | Yes |
3-4 |
On my neck and nipples… MMMM… not too hard though |
| Breast Bondage | Yes |
5 |
Anything at all is wonderful J |
| Breath Control | No |
No |
Again, I like breathing |
| Branding | No |
Discussion, necessary on this one |
|
| Boot Worship | No |
No |
|
| Bondage (light) | Yes |
4 |
I like this to an extent, depends on what is going on.. |
| Bondage (heavy) | Yes |
5 |
I like this VERY much… VERY VERY VERY much! |
| Bondage (multi-day) | No |
No |
|
| Bondage (public, under clothing) | No |
??? |
Hmmmmmm… depends on what… |
| Breast Whipping | Yes |
4 |
I like this very much… especially the crop… |
| Brown Showers | No |
No |
Never, never… |
| Cages | No |
No |
Too Claustrophobic |
| Castration fantasy | No |
No |
N/A |
| Catherization | Yes |
NO! |
Of course, I have had 2 C-Sections… yes I have been catheterized before… |
| Cattle Prod | No |
No |
People really like this thing? |
| Cells/Closets | No |
No |
Too claustrophobic for this |
| Chains | Yes |
5 |
Almost a fetish… love them.. depends on what they are used for though… |
| Chamber pot use | No |
No |
|
| Chastity Belt | No |
No |
Have seen these, but um… well… no |
| Chauffeuring | Yes |
No |
Eck! I do this all the time as Mom’s Taxi service… |
| Choking | No |
No |
I like breathing |
| Chores (domestic service) | ECK! |
No |
Too much like housework… LOL |
| Clothespins | YES! |
5+ |
Oh yes, I adore these little things… so much in soo little… |
| Cock rings/straps | Love to SEE them! |
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| Cock Worship | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes, whatever you want Sir J |
| Collars (worn in private) | Yes |
5 |
I like these very much, I have 2, one of them is quite tight and makes scening hard |
| Collars (worn in public) | Yes |
4 |
Depends on what you think these are… |
| Competitions (w/other subs) | No |
No |
I will NOT compete with others |
| Corsets (casually) | Yes |
4 |
I have one that I like… but it is not a REAL one… |
| Corsets (trained waist reduce) | No |
??? |
Interesting, I have seen a documentary on these, very kewl in my opinion. |
| Cuffs (leather) | Yes |
4 |
I adore my leather set that I have customized, however I like other bindings too J |
| Cuffs (metal) | Yes |
1 |
These tend to cut after a while |
| Cutting | No |
No |
No thank you, I have enough scars from life already |
| Diapers (all) | No |
No |
Can we save the diapers until I am 120 yrs old? |
| Dilation | Yes |
No |
Too Painful… |
| Dildos | Yes |
5 |
MMMMMMMMMMMMMM… what can I say? The real thing is better, but love these too J |
| Double penetration | Yes |
3 |
Ok, not all the time, but I DO adore this… |
| Electricity | Yes |
2 |
Tazer caused a fear a while ago, but I do like certain things with electricity |
| Enemas for cleansing | Yes |
4 |
More of a HAVE to than a WANT to… J |
| Enemas (punishment) | No |
No |
Why make something you have to do anyway a punishment? |
| Enforced Chastity | Yes |
?? |
Verbal
only… nothing more (Especially while collared to a Dom in a diff state J ) |
| Erotic dance (for audience) | Yes |
2 |
I am too self conscious to do this much… plus I kinda move to music… not really dance… <g> |
| Examination (physical) | No |
??? |
Not really something I enjoy… Of course I have had this at the doc’s ofc… |
| Exercise (forced/required) | No |
No |
Eck!… Required? As a scene? ECK! |
| Exhibitionism (friends) | Yes |
3-4 |
How do you think I got ALL the pictures of myself? |
| Exhibitionism (strangers) | Yes |
2 |
I have the web cam… but it just is not all that fun… at times I suppose… but in real life… <ewg> we shall see… |
| Eye contact restrictions | Yes |
2 |
I like eyes and hands on men… I hate to have to turn my eyes… |
| Face slapping | Yes |
NO!! |
Hard Limit on this… No face slapping… I will get pissed-off. |
| Fantasy abandonment | Yes |
NO!! |
|
| Fantasy rape | No |
3-4 |
Would really like to mess with this one… <g> |
| Fantasy gang rape | No |
??? |
VERY interesting in fantasy, not sure in real life … the chances of getting actually hurt in real life are high… |
| Fear (scared) | Yes |
3 |
I like this very much… Of course as RP only… Not everyday… <g> |
| Fisting (anal) | No |
0 |
??? Not an activity that I have ever really wanted to do… |
| Fisting (vaginal) | No |
0 |
Why? What if it is not really made of a elastic like everyone claims? Then the cock would not like it so much…eh? |
| Flame play | No |
??? |
Like a lot of things, this does sound interesting, and I have an avi of this too <g> |
| Following orders | Yes |
5 |
I will follow orders… but I prefer to follow the One I Admire out of love… |
| Foot worship | No |
??? |
I like to lick and tease toes… LOL |
| Forced bedwetting | No |
No |
|
| Forced dressing | Yes |
3 |
It is nice to let someone else make the decision on what to wear… J |
| Forced eating | No |
No |
(too picky… ) |
| Forced homosexuality | Yes |
1 |
Not really my fav… will do if wanted, but doesn’t turn me on ( I am not really *into* women ) |
| Forced heterosexuality | Yes |
5 |
As in FORCEFUL SEX??? Oh yes… Rougher the better (at times… NOT ALL THE TIME) but VERY enjoyable! |
| Forced masturbation | Yes |
2 |
Not really a fav of mine in person… I tend to get self conscious being watched… |
| Forced nudity (private) | Yes |
2 |
Do I have to? |
| Forced nudity around others | Yes |
2 |
Not really a fav… prefer sexy something on… even very little… just something… |
| Forced servitude | Yes |
4 |
I like being given orders of things to do… just not overdone… |
| Forced smoking | No |
??? |
I do smoke… why forced? |
| Full head hoods | No |
0 |
I think I would get claustrophobic in one… |
| Gags (cloth) | Yes |
4 |
At times very kewl… |
| Gags (inflatable) | No |
??? |
Hmmmm…. I have seen them |
| Gags (phallic) | Yes |
5 |
Ok a 5+ if it is REAL |
| Gags(rubber) | No |
??? |
As in ball gag? |
| Gags(tape) | Yes |
2 |
Watch out taking it off… |
| Gas Masks | No |
No |
|
| Genital sex | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes… the whole range of soft loving passionate to STRONG FORCEFUL almost Brutal… <g> |
| Given to another Dom (temp) | No |
No |
Not really something I would like to have happen to me… |
| Given to another Dom (perm) | No |
No |
|
| Golden Showers | No |
No |
Hard Limit |
| Gun play | No |
No |
Eck! |
| Hairbrush spanking | Yes |
3 |
Love it yes… not all the time, but turns me on VERY MUCH! |
| Hair pulling | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes, especially while giving head. During forceful sex… Oh yes… Grabbing my hair and pulling back my face to talk to me… <crossing eyes> makes the juices flow down my legs… |
| Hand jobs (giving) | Yes |
3 |
Depends on the situation, but I like to… but I am not the same as your hand… so cumming is harder to do with my hand… |
| Harems (serve w/ of subs) | No |
No |
Not interested |
| Harnessing (leather) | No |
No |
|
| Harnessing (rope) | No |
???? |
Saw this at the play party though… interesting… takes a while though… |
| Having food chosen for u | Yes |
No |
Eck!… I can make those decisions on my own! |
| Having clothes picked for u | Yes |
4 |
Want to? Please, be my guest… takes the worry away from me… <g> |
| Head (giving) | Yes |
10 |
LOL… Ok, I adore giving head.. any way, any where, all the time… |
| Head (receiving) | Yes |
1 |
Not really a fav of mine… |
| High Heel wearing | Yes |
4 |
Love my newest heels – 6.5 inches tall <g> |
| Homage with tongue | Yes |
3 |
I love this… Oh yes… if you can keep still <g> |
| Hoods | No |
No |
|
| Hot oil on genitals | No |
3?? |
Hot oil? Or warm massage oil? <g> |
| Hot waxing | Yes |
3 |
If this is referring to candle wax… yes I do like… |
| Housework | Yes |
NO |
Who LIKES housework>? – Was referring to in general ~ not scening <G> but NO during scening |
| Human puppy dog | No |
No |
Um… "woof – woof " – NO!!!!! |
| Humiliation (private) | Yes |
3 |
Depends on what you term as Humiliation… |
| Humiliation (public) | Yes |
1 |
Depends on what you term as Humiliation… |
| Hypnotism | Yes |
??? |
Have done this for 18 years, but not scene related |
| Ice Cubes | Yes |
4 |
Hmmmmm… I do like this |
| Immobilization | No |
??? |
OK, is this like total bondage, then yes… if like saran wrap~ no |
| Including others | Yes |
??? |
I have in the past yes, but was not what I desired… but I did not argue either |
| Infantilism | No |
No |
Not really interested in trying this one out either |
| Initiation rites | Yes |
1 |
Depends on what… |
| Injections | Yes |
NO! |
I am not into needles… Had to inject migraine meds a while back… and I had to close my eyes just to do those! |
| Intricate Japanese bondage | No |
4 |
<EWG> I wanna see this… |
| Interrogations | No |
J |
I want to try this sometime… have no idea even how to set up for it… but it certainly sounds like fun… |
| Kidnapping | No |
??? |
|
| Knife play | No |
No |
|
| Leather clothing | Yes |
3 |
I have a jacket of soft lamb leather… have seen some dresses I like… |
| Leather restraints | YES! |
5 |
Love these,,, whether they are mine or leather strings… |
| Lectures for misbehavior | Yes |
0 |
Depends on the meaning of this one… |
| Licking (non-sexual) | Yes |
3 |
Love to J <licks> |
| Lingerie (wearing) | Yes |
5 |
Silly question… |
| Manacles and irons | No |
???? |
Tried some metal ones… um…not for scening though… ECK!~ |
| Manicures (giving) | Yes |
4 |
Yes, I do like to do these.. I enjoy Dominant hands very much.. <g> |
| Massage (giving) | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes… I love to give these… |
| Massage (receiving) | Yes |
5 |
And who does not? |
| Medical scenes | No |
??? |
|
| Modeling for erotic pics | Yes |
4 |
Seen some of mine? |
| Mouth bits | No |
No |
|
| Mummification | No |
No |
|
| Name change (for scene) | Yes |
??? |
Rhianna |
| Name change (legal) | No |
No |
There is only ONE reason to legally change my name… |
| Nipple clamps | Yes! |
5+ |
Oh yes… love these very much… a little warm up is appreciated greatly… then MMMMMMMMMMMMMM |
| Nipple rings | Yes! |
5+ |
Um… I like mine… I have seen an additional piecing done with rings… but not sure if I would want or not… |
| Nipple play/torture | Yes |
4-5 |
I really like this very much… |
| Nipple weights | Yes |
3-4 |
Interesting <g> |
| Oral/Anal play (rimming) | Yes |
1 |
Only with ME doing it… I do not like this to happen to me… |
| OTK spanking | Yes |
5 |
Love it love it love it |
| Orgasm denial | Yes |
1 |
If you really have to do this… ok… but … well… um…. |
| Orgasm control | Yes |
2 |
I am not very experienced in this… I can cum while giving head though ~ if it is forceful enough… |
| Outdoor scenes | Yes |
3 |
Depends on what where <ewg> |
| Outdoor sex | Yes |
3 |
I like secluded almost being seen outdoor sex… and secluded totally sex… <g> |
| Pain (severe) | Yes |
3 |
Depends on
definition of this… There are times I LOVE this… but I have to be very horny at the time… |
| Pain (mild) | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes… Oh yes… |
| Persona training | No |
No |
|
| Personality Modification | No |
NO |
I like me… |
| Phone Sex (Serving Dom) | Yes |
2 |
Not my fav… will do though |
| Phone sex (Serving Dom’s friends) | No |
No |
|
| Phone sex (Commercial) | No |
No |
Would be funny as the dickens though… |
| Piercing (temp) | No |
No |
Not really interested |
| Piercing permanent | Yes! |
5 |
I have 5 ear lobe piercings, and both nipples, and clit hood already done. |
| Plastic surgery | No |
No |
|
| Prison scenes | No |
??? |
Hmmmmm… as long as it does not contain a Cage… |
| Prostitution (public pretense) | No |
No |
|
| Prostitution (actual) | No |
No |
Abso-fucking-lutely NOT <hehhe> |
| Pony slave | No |
No |
|
| Public exposure | ??? |
??? |
No I have not really flashed anyone before… but at work I have come close before… LOL |
| Punishment scene | Yes |
5 |
My favorite of ALL… Oh yes… please more! |
| Pussy whipping | Yes |
5 |
***Remember to ask Master for this as often as possible… <g> |
| Riding crops | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes, love the crop more than almost anything… Very nice! |
| Rituals | No |
??? |
Depends on what... |
| Religious scenes | No |
No |
No |
| Restrictive rules on behavior | Yes |
4 |
Hmmmmm… I think I do quite well with orders… what do you think? |
| Rubber latex clothes | No |
3?? |
Would be interesting… would like to have some… |
| Rope body harness | No |
Yes |
|
| Saran wrapping | No |
No |
|
| Scarification | No |
No |
Have enough of these already… thank you.. |
| Scratching - getting | Yes |
3? |
If included with massage… very nice… |
| Sensory deprivation | Yes |
??? |
Was in a tank
one time for this… saltwater… was extremely relaxing… but strange… Other than that no… I would like to try the headphones on full volume while scening… |
| Serving | Yes |
5 |
How may I serve you tonite Sir? <g> |
| Serving as art | No |
No |
|
| Serving as ashtray | No |
No |
NOT!!!! |
| Serving as furniture | No |
No |
|
| Serving as a maid | Yes |
0 |
Eck!… hate being the maid… |
| Serving as toilet (urine) | NO! |
NO! |
Hard Limit NO~! |
| Serving as toilet (feces) | NO! |
NO! |
Hard Limit NO~! |
| Serving as waitress | No |
No |
|
| Serving orally (sexual) | Yes |
5 |
Love to serve orally… wherever you would like J |
| Serving other Doms (supervised) | No |
No |
|
| Serving other Doms (unsupervised) | No |
No |
|
| Sexual deprivation (short term) | No |
No |
Unless you talk with my ex-husband… the man can go months without sex… |
| Sexual deprivation (long term) | No |
No |
See comment above… |
| Shaving body hair | Yes |
??? |
Um… I just do it, not really a turn on or anything… |
| Shaving (head hair) | NO! |
NO! |
Not in this reality ~ took me long enough to get it this long… NO! |
| Skinny dipping | Yes |
3 |
Maybe… |
| Sleep deprivation | Yes |
LMAO |
The total amount of sleep this week ~ about 12 hours… |
| Sleepsacks | No |
No |
|
| Slutty clothing (private) | Yes |
5 |
I have a few outfits that are J |
| Slutty clothing (public) | Yes |
3 |
Not all the time, but at times I feel like going out with my significant-other dressed slutty.. |
| Spandex clothing | Yes |
1 |
Some people should not wear spandex… I will on top… but not shorts or pants.. |
| Spanking | Yes |
5 |
Oh yes…please more… please… |
| Speech restrictions (when, what) | Yes |
2 |
Not really a fav… I talk too much |
| Speculums (Anal) | No |
No |
|
| Speculums (Vaginal) | Yes |
0 |
Hey try to go to the ob/gyn and NOT have them use one.. |
| Spitting | No |
No |
|
| Spreader bars | Yes |
4 |
I have one, but I made it…almost broke it one time too.. oops… |
| Standing in corner | Yes |
No |
Don’t like this… |
| Stocks | No |
?? |
Interesting… would like to know more about this… |
| Straight jackets | Yes |
??? |
I used to have one of the old kind… couldn’t find it this last move though |
| Strap on dildos (sucking on) | No |
??? |
Hmmmmmmm |
| Strap on dildos (penetrated by) | No |
??? |
This would involve whom? |
| Strap on dildos (wearing) | No |
??? |
Hmmmm… |
| Strapping (full body beating) | No |
??? |
Um… not sure I would like this |
| Suspension (upright) | No |
2 |
Not sure about this… just saw a version of this at a play party… interesting… |
| Suspension (inverted) | Yes |
4 |
Very nice… inversion boots… makes access nice… but can’t stay that way too long… |
| Suspension (horizontal) | No |
No |
Back probs, can’t |
| Supplying new partners for Dom | No |
No |
Nope won’t do it |
| Swallowing feces | No |
No |
Hard Limit – No |
| Swallowing Semen | YES!!! |
5 |
Love to ..
Love to… Love to.. Like to wear it, Love to swallow though |
| Swallowing urine | No |
No |
Hard limit – No |
| Swapping (with another couple) | Yes |
No |
Did once |
| Swinging (multiple couples) | Yes |
No |
Did once |
| Tampon training (anal) | No |
No |
Ouch! - not enough lubrication in the rectum to make this even interesting… |
| Tattooing | No |
Yes |
<g> like that answer? |
| Teasing | Yes |
Hehehe |
Yes I like to tease… as far as teased my self… well, .. um… er… hehehehe |
| TENS Unit (elec toy) | Yes |
5 |
Ever had Physical therapy with one of these>? They are great <g> Never used in a scene though |
| Thumbcuffs (metal) | Yes |
3 |
Can be fun J |
| Tickling | Yes |
3 |
I like to tickle someone else, I am not that ticklish unless I am turned-on then I am… |
| Triple penetration | Yes |
2 |
It is ok… <g> makes me a bit busy though… |
| Urethral Sounds (metal rods) | No |
No |
Read about this in a story on my website. OUCH! NO! |
| Uniforms | No |
4 |
I have a fantasy… involves a Cop <g> |
| Vaginal Dildo | Yes |
5 |
Very nice… VERY |
| Verbal humiliation | Yes |
5 |
I say 5 because I like being called names and such while scening… in real life don’t even try… |
| Vibrator on genitals | Yes |
4 |
On mine great… doing to yours is more fun though J |
| Violet wand (elec toy) | Yes |
4 |
Really makes me squirm… it is VERY different… I like the attachment that looks like a comb |
| Voyeurism (watching others) | Yes |
4 |
On video? Yes… In real life… interesting.. the play party was fun… made me too friggin horny though |
| Voyeurism (your Dom with others) | No |
Yes |
It's ok at Play Parties... |
| Video (watching others) | Yes |
Oh yes |
Avi, MPG, .rm, you name it… <g> |
| Video (recording of you) | Yes |
Yes |
Eck!… Hate watching myself |
| Water Torture | No |
No |
|
| Waxing (hair removal) | Yes |
No |
The wax gets stuck and ecky… easier to remove hair another way… |
| Wearing symbolic jewelry | No |
??? |
Depends on what |
| Weight gain (forced) | No |
No |
|
| Weight loss (forced) | No |
No |
|
| Whipping | Yes |
4 |
Depends on
what ~ Flogger – Oh I love that… a REAL Single tail I would have to get used to
though… could not handle that right now… Buggy whips are interesting too |
| Wooden paddles | Yes |
4 |
I like these a lot… I have one <g> |
| Wrestling | Yes |
2 |
As in playing around and wrestling in bed or on the floor oh yes, that can be fun J |
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