never judge anyone
A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having
fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco. "Mom and Dad,
I'm coming home, but I've got a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to
bring with me." "Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."
"There's something you should know" the son continued, "he was hurt pretty
badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mined and lost an arm and a leg.
He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us."
"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live."
"No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us." "Son," said the father, "you
don't know what you're asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible
burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let something like
this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget
about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own." At that point,the son
hung up the phone.
The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they
received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling
from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The
grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue
to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror
they also discovered something they didn't know, their son had only one arm
and one leg.
The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those
who are good-looking or fun to have around, but we don't like people who
inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away
from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. Do you
REALLY want to be one of them people???