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Positive
Dream
Don't
ever be reluctant
to show your feelings when
you're happy, give in to it.
When you're not, live with it.
Don't
ever be afraid to
try to make things better you might
be surprised at the results.
Don't
ever take the weight of the
world on your shoulders.
Don't ever feel threatened by the future;
take life one day at a time.
Don't
ever feel guilty about the past
what's done is done.
Learn from any mistakes you might have made.
Don't
ever feel that you are alone
there is always somebody there
for you to reach out to.
Don't
ever forget that you can achieve
so many of the things you can imagine. ...
It's not as hard as it seems.
Don't
ever stop loving
don't ever stop believing;
don't ever stop dreaming your dreams.
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Think
Pocitive 2
Once
there loved couple traveling in a bus they decided to get down at some
place.
The
couple disembarked and the bus moved on.
As the bus moved on, a humongous rock fell crushed the bus to crumbs from
the mountain.
Everybody
on board was killed.
The
couple upon seeing that, said, "We wish we were on that bus".
Why do u think they said that?
Answer!!!!
If they had remained on the bus instead of deciding to get down, the
resulting time delay could have been avoided
and the rock would have fallen after the bus had passed...
Think
positive in life always and look for opportunities when u can help others.
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Tension
The
moment you are in tension
You
will lose your attention
Then
you are in total confusion
and
you’ll feel irritation
This
may spoil your personal relation
Ultimately,
you won’t get co-operation
And
get things into complication
Then
your BP may raise caution
And
you may have to take medication
Why
not try understanding the situation
And
try to think about the solution
Many
problems will be solved by discussion
Which
will work out better in your profession
Don’t
think it’s my free suggestion
It
is only for your prevention
If
you understand my intention
You’ll
never come again into tension!!!
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I
Asked God
I asked God to take away my pain.
God said, No.
It is not for Me to take away, but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No.
His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No.
Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings, happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you
closer to Me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No.
You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I
asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No.
I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.
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Personal
Perception
Different people have different perception. One man's
meat could be
another man's poison.
A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy
commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"
Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He
walked besides them.
Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of
a family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is
on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the
husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old lady. She commented, "How
can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no
gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on
the donkey.
Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you
hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you."
Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from
the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the
only choice left.
Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled.
They lost their balance and fell into the river.
"You can never have everyone praise you nor will everyone condemn
you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the
future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our
conscience is clear."
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Right Speech
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that
"A peech
will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off
because of wrong speech.
When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual
respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it
would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction
site.
A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi,Emily! Remember
me? We used to date in the secondary school."
On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you
married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction
worker."
She answered, "You should appreciate that you married me.
Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad
relationship.
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No
Overpowering
Many relationships fail because one party tries to
overpower
another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love
will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after
marriage.
Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which
carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a
Driver than a person's character."
It is not easy to chnge. Thus, having high expectation on changing
the spouses character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our
expectations.
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No Pointing Finger
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a
successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife
for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear
in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could
not find a better husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected.
Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person
makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point
the finger at.
This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we
point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing
at ourselves.
If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.
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Nothing
To Worry
There are only two things to worry
about:
Either you are well, or you are sick.
If you are well, then there is nothing to worry about.
But if your sick, there are two things to worry about.
Either you will get well, or you will die.
If you get well, there is nothing to worry about.
But if you die, there are only two things to worry about.
Either you will go to heaven or hell.
If you go to heaven, there is nothing to worry about.
But if you go to hell, you'll be so damn busy shaking
hands with friends, you won't have time to worry.
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Think Positive
Failure doesn't mean - You are a
failure, It means - You have not succeeded.
Failure doesn't mean - You
accomplished nothing, It means - You have
learned something.
Failure doesn't mean - That you
have been a fool, It means - You had a lot
of faith.
Failure doesn't mean - You've
been disgraced, It means -You were willing
to try.
Failure doesn't mean - You don't
have it, It means - You have to do something
in a different way.
Failure doesn't mean - You are
inferior, It means - You are not perfect.
Failure doesn't mean - You've
wasted your life, It means - You have a
reason to start afresh.
Failure doesn't mean - You should
give up, It means - You must try harder.
Failure doesn't mean - You'll
never make it, It means - It will take a
little longer.
Failure doesn't mean - God has
abandoned you, It means -God has a better
way for you.
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