Essay 14
Is there anything wrong with
habit forming?
Habits
are formed when a person does an activity on a regular basis until he does
it without thinking or cannot stop doing it. We need habits to survive.
They regulate our social lives, help us to maintain our health, and allow
us to act without reflection when we must. Everyone has habits and are
constantly forming new habits everyday. Our body and mind has hundreds
of habits to perform and they are all done subconsciously, unless the habit
has created discomfort. So is habit forming right or wrong? This will depend
on the type of habit the person is forming. Habits are either good, bad
or neutral. It is wrong to form a bad habit, knowing it is bad. But if
the habit is good or neutral, I think there is nothing wrong. In fact ,
forming good habits can be beneficial to the person. But bad habits, vices,
which are harmful , can cause a person’s downfall. Habit forming also becomes
harmful when a habit becomes an addiction. An addiction can be described
as a bad habit that is especially difficult to change.
What
can be defined as good habits? Good habits are habits that help us have
a better lifestyle and be a better person, improve social relationships,
education and employment. One example is reading newspapers and magazines.
Reading will improve our language and reading newspapers and magazines
will keep us updated with current affairs. We need to know what is happening
around us, not only in our own country, but all around the world too. Exercising
is also a very good habit. It not only keeps us fit and healthy , burns
off excess fat and keeps our heart in good condition, it also helps relieve
stress from studies or work. These habits are beneficial to us.
Forming bad
habits like smoking or taking drugs are definitely destructive. Habits
like these cause at least, a little amount of addiction, especially if
the habit is enjoyable to the person. An addiction is like a dependence.
A habit becomes an addiction when the body needs to perform a particular
activity not part of routine but as a necessity for it to continue working
properly. You end up doing more than you intend, trying unsuccessfully
to stop, neglecting other responsibilities , doing it more while enjoying
it less, yet feeling restless, irritable, and depressed when you stop,
feeling unhappy after doing it, and doing it again to relieve that feeling.
Breaking an addiction can have some serious short- term and sometimes long-
term side effects, for example, withdrawal symptoms. These effects can
not only be harmful but can also make it harder to break the habit. We
can get addicted to smoking which leads to lung and throat cancer, and
in turn can cause deaths. Smoking addicts will feel uneasy when they have
not smoked a cigarette for a period of time. Smoking not only affects the
smoker’s health; it also affects the health of the person around him. Nowadays,
lots of people smoke, but there is an evergoing campaign on telling people
not to smoke and educating people of the harmful effects of smoking.
Drug abuse, a serious crime, may cause death too, and arrested drug addicts
and drug traffickers are sent to either jail or rehabilitation centres.
Drugs can really wreak havoc on a person’s life and are highly addictive.
People always use relieving stress as an excuse for taking drugs, but little
do they know they are playing with death, as they can die form a drug overdose
very easily. And kicking the drug habit in a rehabilitation centre is such
a painful process that the amount of suffering cannot be described. We
can also get addicted to alcohol. These are destructive habits. They can
get you into trouble, and can make a mess out of your social life. People
avoid you, get disgusted by your habits and attitude. They might even think
that you are a bad influence on them, so they stay away from you, and might
not even acknowledge you as a friend.
There
are also bad habits not as serious as those above, but forming them is
still wrong. One bad habit is swearing. This bad habit gives other people
a bad impression of you. What would you think of a person who swears every
now and then? He would be seen as vulgar and unruly and in worst cases
people might think he is a ruffian or a hooligan. Some vulgarities are
also very insulting and many people may be offended. Another common bad
habit is addiction to coffee. Working people have a lot of work to do,
and when they feel tired or sleepy, they drink coffee, which contains caffeine,
to perk them up. After some time, normal coffee has no effect on them,
so they start taking double shots. It gets worse and if they do not drink
coffee, they might end up sleepy and tired the whole day. From then on,
it would be very difficult to kick the habit.
Neutral habits are habits that do not really benefit the person, but do
not cause him harm either. We do not purposely form these habits because
normally, they form by themselves. Habits like scratching the head when
in doubt or cracking fingers make no difference to the person’s life. These
actions often show what the person is thinking and are very common habits
that people accept them readily, not even giving them an extra thought.
We will not be better off without these kinds of habits, and there are
no disadvantages of not having them too, but forming them is sometimes
inevitable. These minor habits are harmless; there is absolutely nothing
wrong in forming these kinds of habits
What
are the positive effects of habits? If the habits are beneficial, one is
that people will think well of you, because they have a good impression
of you. Another is that your life will be much happier, being healthy and
energetic. Knowing your life is not meaningless will also give you a reason
to be happy. 95% of what we do from one day to the next is in repetition.
We should now be able to see, that since habits governs so much, all we
have to do is force ourselves to do the thing we want and need to do, on
a regular basis. This automatically becomes a habit of choice and
something that can be constructive.
There
are many negative effects of habits. Serious bad habits will cause you
to get into trouble with the law and even risk death, either by sentence
or accident. Less serious habits may cause you to lose your friends and
respect. You give people a bad impression of yourself and they will avoid
you. We should not let ourselves be run by routines. Routines or habits
enable us to do things without having to think too much about them. The
danger is that habits are too convenient. You may know people who appear
to live their lives entirely by habit. We should be more creative in our
thinking.
Everyone
will surely have habits, be it good, neutral or bad. What type of habit
a person will form will depend very much on himself and his circle of friends.
If a person’s friends are all smokers or take drugs, because of peer pressure,
he might become a smoker or drug addict too. Habits can make or break you.
Make habits that are useful and healthy and realize that it can produce
tremendous amount of opportunity and success. Habits grow depending on
the level of enjoyment or necessity it can thrive on and grow out of control.
When it goes out of control it can be difficult to stop. But if you remove
it piece by piece and at a greater rate than the growth, it can be placed
under control. There is nothing wrong with forming habits, it is the kind
of habit you form that really matters.
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