A SOFFA is defined as a Significant Other, Friend, Family, or Ally of a
transsexual, transgender, intersex or other gender-variant person.






Resource Links
Lisa's Luv Shack SOFFAzine Transensual Femme
SOFFA USA TransFamily FTMSO's Homepage
Partners of Transgender People's Journal Minnie Bruce Pratt
(partner of Leslie Feinberg)		 FemmeFair
email support list for femme identified partners of FTMs
FTMSO List
email list for partners of FTMs
(open to all orientations)		 NyteCafe
email support list for straight
identified partners of FTMs		 FTM-Butch-Femme Forum



SOFFA's Personal Pages
alwayslisa.com The Other Side of the Rainbow Vivian's Tranny SO Page
Natasha's Home Page Trans-Femme Emerald Lady's Lair





*Disclaimer: The below list was composed by a SOFFA with the help of an FTM friend, created with
the humor and love that they share. It is not meant to offend ANYONE.

Top 10 Ways to tell if your SO is an FTM...

10. Binders dont just hold papers at your house.

9. When moving, you have to define what you mean by "packing".

8. He looks good, even when he dresses himself.

7. The dog's new chew toy has the neighbors calling you Loreena Bobbit.

6. He can talk sports and hook up a Satellite dish...but he still cant parallel park your Honda.

5. There are no toilet seat wars at your house.

4. He understands about bad hair days.

3. Your home is under police surveillance thanks to the number of needles found in your trashcans.

2. He can purchase jewelry and other gifts for you without the help of his mother.

and the #1 way you can tell your SO is an FTM is...

1. All your friends are jealous over the great guy you've got.

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