I
first met Malvin when I was cooking dinner. He was cooking couscous, a favorite
meal of mine. From the very beginning, he intrigued me. I was eating with
my friends, but conversation was forced, so I picked up my plate and glass
and after gaining permission, I plopped down beside him at his table. I
soon found out that Malvin was from England and was over in Ireland for
"personal" reasons. Minutes went by like this before he realized
that I was no threat to him.
It
turned out that Malvin was in Ireland to seek out his history. For the last
couple of years, he has been on and off the streets, dealing with his personal
problems in his way. As a bus driver, he made minimal amounts of money but
enough to get him to Ireland for week. He was fifty years old, a storyteller
by trade, after spending over 20 years in the English navy. I soon realized
that Malvin was someone to listen to. His words and face told me he had
experienced things that I would dare talk about. I was mezmorized by his
thoughts. Malvin used to be a teacher of drama who got out of the profession
when he realized that pessimisum had taken over the minds of his collegues.
In
Ireland, Malvin hoped to find his past. As a young man, he learned that
he was not an only child as his father had told him all his life. When his
father was younger, he left a family in Ireland to go to England. Up until
their deaths, Malvin's family had asked that he not look into his remaining
family. With his life in tormoil, Malvin decided that the only way to help
himself was to find out where he came from. Coming to Ireland, Malvin had
no where to start other than the local ancestory bureau.
Luck
came Malvins way. As we spoke, he recieved a phone call. It was one of his
step brothers in Ireland. The bureau had contacted him when Malvin used
their services. Two days later, when I last saw Malvin, he greeted me with
a smile and a hand shake. During the period I had not seen him, he had learned
of four other brothers and sisters and more than 20 cousins that still lived
int he Limerick area. The night before, they all gotten together to discuss
their father. I will never forget the joy I saw in his face. Being in a
state of question myself, Malvin's story helped me to realize that things
will fall into place eventually.
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I
Lost My Keys
At
some point it is neccessary to see the pubs of Ireland. One thursday night,
after a long day at school, this is exactly what I did. Myself, along with
students from Finland, Germany, France, Austrailia, and the Netherlands
crowded into Doland's Pub on Dock Road. After a couple of pints, we made
our way back to the hostel. Having only had a couple, I was perfectly fine,
or so i thoughts.
At
one corner, I was talking to the group, not paying attention to where I
was going. I soon ran into a low garden wall. There is stood, about a foot
off of the ground. I tripped and fell, scaping my arms and legs. The people
around me rushed to my aid, helping me up. Not more than 5 seconds later,
I ran into a pole. By this point I was embarassed and kept my eyes on the
ground, refusing to talk to anyone for fear of running into something else.
The
next
morning came and I realized that at some point during the night I had lost
my keys. Inlcuded on the key ring was a key to the school I was doing my
student teaching at. Deciding to retrace my steps, I found myself at the
garden I come to know the night before. After a half hour of suspicious
digging around in the dirt, I found the keys. Now all i had to do was to
get the dirt off of my dress clothes!
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