As
all good tourists shouldn't do, one day we decided to walk around Limerick
City without a map or any knowledge of what was and wasn't a "bad"
area. After what seemed like a good walk, we found ourselves walking down
a narrow pathway in a direction we couldn't tell.
In
the distance we could see a group of boys playing on a rope that was connected
to a tree. They were using the rope to swing around a ditch that was close
by. As we passed the boys, one signaled to Erin and asked if he could
get a sip from her water. She told him he could have it, and handed the
drink over. Excited by the attention, we stopped for just a little while
to play with the children. We were excited to meet such nice boys. Looking
back, I think it was the fact they called us sir and miss, common terms
used in schools. We even agreed to take a swing on their rope. Not thinking,
we set our bags to the side while we played along.
We
had the digital camera with us as well. We decided a picture was in order.
After doing my swing routine, I realized something was up when I noticed
a few boys hovering around our bags. I slowly walked over and saw that
one of the boys was trying to get into Erin's bag. I was the only one
that noticed this and quietly told the boys to stay out of the stuff.
Meanwhile,
the others were taking pictures. They handed me the camera and asked
me to take some pictures of them with the boys. This is when the boys
showed their true colors. Looking at the pictures closely, one can
see that in the first picture, the boys are making some perverted
gestures on the top row. In the second picture, the boys create further
mischief by acting out for the camera. In the third picture, the boys
posed innocently for the camera as if nothing they had done was the
least bit questionable.
Gaining
the opportunity for exit, we quickly made our way out of the area. As
we left, we noticed older boys that were making their way towards us.
We felt sure that if we had stayed much longer, we might have lost all
of our bags, as well as endangered our lives.
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Of
all the people that you will meet in the world, the French are some
of the more interesting and entertaining. I say this only because they can
be every bit as proud as we can when it comes to their country. One way
this shows is through the expression of their language. To be fair, English
is full of its wacky sayings: "off his rocker," "I love you
pumpkin", etc. The French have some of their own sayings.
One
time, as I was coming down for a night on the streets of Limerick (we were
going to a pub), I made the mistake of getting a little too dressy. As I
approached the French students who were to join us, on commented to the
other. Together they started to laugh. When in another country, with a different
language, you learn to become very suspicious of others. You feel as if
everyone is talking about you. In this case, I was right. When I asked what
they had said, they said that is was a compliment that the translation was
not good. In short they had said that I was dressed very nice, but in the
translation it would come across as "he is pretty like a truck."
Now they assured me that this was a compliment although I still have my
doubts.
From
that
time on, my American companions said I looked pretty like a truck every
time I got dressed up.
The
Fight Over an Imprisoned Father
When
teaching, there will inevitably come a point when two students will start
fighting. Children fight for various reasons. Perhaps they are working to
make their place in the pecking order or because someone took their seat
on the bus. In this case, the fight was much the same.
There
they were, two girls fighting it out. Yelling, screaming, throwing their
arms as each other, hoping to catch just a little piece of the other. Name
calling and fighting words came as they usually do. At one point things
turned serious. One of the girls turned to the other and called out, "(words
omitted for pg-13 audiences), your father is in prison for killing someone..."
I was quick to separate the girls, asking them to apologize to each other.
Still though, the words of the girl were disturbing to hear.
It
wasn't until later that the host teacher told me what the truth was, that
in fact the one student's father was in the local prison for killing a man.
I was shocked. In my particular school, it is common to find parents that
are in non-traditional situations. It wasn't until that point that I realized
some of the backgrounds were beyond their control, and that special attention
is necessary for these students to give them the support they may or may
not receive.
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