| Reason Masters All |
At the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story. My name is
Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher from
DeMoines, Iowa. I've always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons - -
something I've done for over 30 years. Over the years I found that children
have many levels of musical ability. I've never had the pleasure of having a
protégé though I have taught some talented students. However, I've also had
my share of what I call "musically challenged" pupils. One such student was
Robby. Robby was 11 years old when his mother (a single mom) dropped him
off for his first piano lesson. I prefer that students (especially boys) begin
at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby.
But Robby said that it had always been his mother's dream to hear
him play the piano. So I took him as a student. Well, Robby began with his piano
lessons and from the beginning I thought it was a hopeless endeavor. As much
as Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel.
But he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces that
I require all my students to learn. Over the months he tried and tried while I
listened and cringed and tried to encourage him. At the end of each weekly
lesson he'd always say, "My mom's going to hear me play someday." But it seemed
hopeless. He just did not have any inborn ability. I only knew his mother from
a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her aged car to pick him up.
She always waved and smiled but never stopped in. Then one day
Robby stopped coming to our lessons. I thought about calling him but assumed,
because of his lack of ability, that he had decided to pursue something else. I
also was glad that he stopped coming. He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed to the student's homes a flyer on the
upcoming recital. To my surprise Robby (who received a flyer) asked me if he
could be in the recital. I told him that the recital was for current pupils
and because he had dropped out he really did not qualify. He said that his mom
had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessons, but he was still
practicing.
"Miss Hondorf...I've just got to play!" he insisted. I don't know
what led me to allow him to play in the recital. Maybe it was his persistence or
maybe it was something inside of me saying that it would be all right. The
night for the recital came. The high school gymnasium was packed with parents,
friends and relatives. I put Robby up last in the program before I was to
come up and thank all the students and play a finishing piece. I thought that
any damage he would do would come at the end of the program and I could always
salvage his poor performance through my "curtain closer."
Well, the recital went off without a hitch. The students had been
practicing and it showed. Then Robby came up on stage. His clothes were
wrinkled and his hair looked like he had run an eggbeater through it. "Why didn't he
dress up like the other students?" I thought. "Why didn't his mother at least
make him comb his hair for this special night?"
Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began. I was surprised when
he announced that he had chosen Mozart's Concerto #21 in C Major. I was
not prepared for what I heard next. His fingers were light on the keys,
they even danced nimbly on the ivories. He went from pianissimo to
fortissimo...from allegro to virtuoso. His suspended chords that Mozart demands were
magnificent! Never had I heard Mozart played so well by someone his
age.
After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo and
everyone was on their feet in wild applause. Overcome and in tears I ran up on stage
and put my arms around Robby in joy. "I've never heard you play like that
Robby! How'd you do it?"
Through the microphone Robby explained: "Well Miss Hondorf...remember I told
you my mom was sick? Well, actually she had cancer and passed away
this morning. And well...she was born deaf so tonight was the first time
she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it special."
There wasn't a dry eye in the house that evening. As the people from
Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed into foster care, I
noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy and I thought to myself how
much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil. No, I've never
had a prodigy, but that night I became a protégé...of Robby's. He was the
teacher and I was the pupil. For it is he that taught me the meaning of
perseverance and love and believing in yourself and maybe even taking a chance in
someone and you don't know why.
This is especially meaningful to me since after serving in Desert
Storm Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal
Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995, where he was reportedly...playing
the piano