Staying Alive |
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by
Dr. Diana Robinson
a personal development coach
Most people are enthusiastic at the start of a project. But it’s keeping the energy going that’s difficult. There are points in the progress of every project when energy fades. Here are some ways to prevent your enthusiasm from flagging.
1.
Use visual reminders of
your goal
Develop
visual reminders of your goal and the advantages you will experience when you
reach it. The classic example is being able
to afford something you’ve been yearning for. Get your photograph taken with
that item (like your dream car) and place the photograph where you will see it
daily.
2.
Develop
tiny steps
It’s
easy to become discouraged if each step looms large and takes a long time. Break
the project down to extremely small steps, then you can make some progress even
if you have only five minutes.
3.
Check
off small steps
As
you take those small steps, check them off as you finish them. Give yourself a
pat of the back for your progress. The progress you have made is just as
important as the distance you have to go.
4.
Cut
down on time wasters and mind numbers
Identify
and avoid timewasters that you use to “numb out”. Then avoid them as much as
possible. The list may include too much TV, chat-rooms, computer games, time on
the phone, alcohol and partying, or other behaviors in which you indulge fairly
obsessively.
5.
Get
enough rest
Often,
when you feel you need to work harder, you put in more hours and take less rest.
It’s essential to get enough sleep or your project will suffer.
6.
Keep
a journal about the benefits of your project
This
involves harnessing the verbal part of your brain. This makes you feel more
involved with the project. Do this especially at the start, when your energy
level is high. Add to this journal whenever you can, and read it regularly.
7.
Don’t
discuss the project with wet blankets
Some
people worry that if you succeed, you may grow away from them. There are others
who just don’t want to see you aim too high and then be disappointed. They
mean well, but avoid giving them the opportunity to rain on your parade.
Practice ways to change the subject if they try to talk about your project.
8.
Keep
yourself physically well
Eat
right, exercise and drink plenty of water… you know the routine. The trick is
to keep at it so that you have the energy needed to carry your project through.
9.
Avoid
all-or-nothing thinking
When
we fall into the trap of all-or-nothing thinking, we begin to believe that
encountering obstacles or failure, at one juncture equals total failure on the
entire project.
10.
Clear
the decks
While we are focusing on one thing, there are other affairs that accumulate and may overwhelm us. Keep a to-do list and keep to it. You may think that doing these things takes time from your project, but they actually help keep your energy levels up.