Negotiations For Play |
This list is a general guide of things that should be negotiated between players of BDSM. It is a basic list meant to provide an understanding of what is to be expected and what preparations should be taken beforehand. It it in no way comprehensive, as each scene or situation brings new issues. Remember, Anything you feel is important is important enough to negotiate. |
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1.) Discuss the use of Safe Words and identify what they will be. 2.) Locate the First Aid kit, Fire Extinguishers, phone, etc. 3.) Know who is the Dungeon Monitor. 4.) Know who is taking prescription medications and any side effects of medications. 5.) Know emergency routes to exit play area, in case of emergency. 6.) Discuss any limits of sub or Dom. Be specific. Especially when pointing out hard limits. 7.) Know who is going to be involved. 8.) Know where scene is going to take place. 9.) What time is everyone meeting. 10.) Discuss issue of safe sex and what protection will be practiced or used. |