My first officious entry with this new blog.  I would introduce myself with a 'who am I speil, but as you will soon realize, there are many dynamics to Mistress Claire, and she is very difficult to put into a nutshell.

My boyfriend said it very well last night when he was speaking about his previous sexual encounters with other women vs. me... He doesn't call me Mistress. He is permitted to call me my given name, or whatever he likes.. and I choose the same for him. (Just a clarification for those lifestylers which will work on sorting out my power exchange with him)

He described his other sexual relationships... nice.. ok... as their owning 'vanilla' limits and him being ... satisfied within that realm. Then he described us... he said that being with me was like having pandoras box ... with his other relationship.. he could only wonder what might be there.. with me, that box is flung wide open, and he never knows what will come up from it next... I like that. It means I take him places he hasnt been before, may never have considered, or may have always wished.

Alex is a creamy vanilla when it comes to power exchange. He has an excellent grasp of power exchange, but has no understanding in the excitement relating to D/s.

While for the strongly experienced in the lifestyle, that may seem like playing with fire, there are some excellent benifets that my Alex holds for me which I love.

1. he doesnt 'serve' me, but everything he does is geared towards my personal pleasure. Something he conveys clearly and concisely without the utterance of any formality, and while we are intellectually equals...I for about 90% of the time, feel served by his desire to make me smile....and moan.

2. He does own some very curious fetishes that I am appreciating learning about. I love to explore new fetish and see what makes it so validating for an individual. I would suppose that if you were to put a fetish on me -  that would be a very strong one.

3. While he doesnt understand all the dynamics of what my kick for D/s and the BDSM lifestyle is, he has no jelousy towards it,  and knows I own subs. Which I would say leads him to be unique to be sure.  Personally, I think in time he may find his nitch in the lifestyle, as he is far from innocent. I find learning what makes him tick to be a new adventure everyday.~~

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~~What makes a person 'tick'.  We all pride outselves on our individuality, and what blessings/curses it awards us. Some find personal validation in their vanity and their best friend is the person they see inthe mirror each day, while others find their validations in pleasing others, or being pleased, or seeing how invisable they can become.

My blog isnt about self glorification, and its not about preaching... (I am sure that there will be times when I break that rule as I get very introspective on some occassions though....) My blog is about a Mistress's random thoughts, feelings and activities.

Often these may be very mundane.. even vanilla. Sometimes they will be chaotic, and far from the control one would expect from a dominant.. Other times it will be erotic, direct, and for some offensive as I speak my mind, and witin my mind lives some strong sexuality. As I believe sexuality is a gift to be explored with careful curiosity, it means that I am exceptionally open mindedto many things that others would truly scoff, or ridicule.

For those people that fall in that last catagory.. its time for you to walk away now. You arent interested in my thoughts and explorations.. and you can bet I am not interested in your negative thoughts or opinions. Have pleasant journey through your walk in life.. and adios!

For everyone else WELCOME to the mind of Constance Claire. To some known as Constance. To others known as Claire, and to others... Mistress, Ma'am, Goddess, or Mistress Claire.  Many handles, and the person behind them is no less complex.