Places to Avoid During First Date Wedding Going to a wedding as a first date violates just about every single one of the basic rules which listed earlier. Don't you think there are a lot of competitor around ? New Year's Eve Party Scariest night of the year for a first date. New clothes, high expectations, lots of booze, noisy ... it is very hard for both of you to communicate. Movies Going to the movies doesn't give you much of an opportunity to talk and if your tastes differ, you may have a hard time finding a movie that pleases you both. On the other hand, having seen the same movie gives you something to talk about afterward.