Guidelines for Men / Women on Observation


For Men - Keep your focus on women who smile at you. While outdoors, in your leisure time, take notice if someone is checking you out. Some of us tend to be shy at times - myself included - so don't flirt in public often; but when in a daring or confident mood, try it. 

Remember you don't have to be at an "event" to get a date. If you notice a woman smiling at you say, "Hi" Or ask, "Are you going my way ?" or "May I walk you to your destination ?" Women sense when a man is feeling confident and in charge of his life, and these are the men who ask women out wherever they go. 

For Women - When in a crowd, pay attention to how many men are looking your way. Most men would agree that they intuit a woman who feels feminie and confident from her mannerisms. You might be suprised to discover how many opportunities there are for flirting when you keep your eyes open. Of course you won't know this if you're looking down or staring straight ahead. Keep your head up, your mind alert, "your antenna up," and SMILE