What men don't want during sex ?


She just lies there
Very, very frustrating. Makes most men feel like necrophiliacs. 

She won't talk about sex/won't tell me what turns her on
Very common. Fear is a leading factor. 

She isn't into oral sex / won't swallow
Oral sex is the number one service requested of prostitutes. No surprise - it 
feels good. More important, the psychological satisfaction is enormous. You're 
no pervert if you like your penis sucked and licked and loved. A woman 
reluctant to do so is usually afraid of not doing it right, of you coming in 
her mouth. My advice is not to press a reluctant partner too hard. 

She takes too much time getting aroused
Yes, sometimes women take FOREVER ! There are many ways of heightening a 
woman's sexual sensivities before foreplay that will save you from heat stroke. 

She is nonorgasmic
Most women are not orgasmic 100 percent of the time. Some women never are. Most 
women also need to have had an orgasm by themselves before they can have orgasm 
with you. To further that aim, I advise you to buy her a vibrator and encourage 
her to use it. Vibrators are the easiest way for a woman to climax. Vibration, 
however, is not a motion found in nature - nothing you can duplicate with your 
hands or tongue.