What women don't want during sex ?


He doesn't spend enough time getting me aroused
Foreplay, to most men, usually entails kissing with extra tongue, adjusting her 
knobs, then launching the rockets. While arousal time does vary from woman to 
woman, most women need more stimulation than this. Since arousal starts between 
the ears, not between the legs, there are a lot of things besides foreplay that 
you can do to heighten a woman's sexual sensitivities 

He doesn't hold me afterward
Snuggling is very important. Women get a lot more out of sex than the thrill of 
orgasm. There's closeness, comfort, validation, all of which is negated when 
you roll over and go right to sleep after sex. The bond is what counts here. 
Most women will tolerate anything except inattention. Don't let romance fizzle 
in your relationship. 

He comes too fast/not fast enough
What's too fast ? Don't gauge this on whether she's had an orgasm or not. 
Women's arousal time varies, remember ? You have to determine for yourself how 
fast is too fast. Don't drink and make love. If you want to last longer, keep 
visualizing the perfect encounter where you perform the way you always wanted 
to perform. What we can conceive and believe, we can achieve. 

He is too quiet when he comes
Somewhere down the line, we agreed that women were going to make a lots of 
noise during intercourse. And men were not. She wants to hear how excited you 
are by being with her just as much as you want to hear how excited she is by 
being with you. Don't overlook how arousing groaning, ecstatic cries can be to 
your partner. 

He doesn't practive good personal hygiene
The longer we're in a relationship, the more apt we are to forget about 
shaving, washing and brushing our teeth. We all do it. little stuff like that 
makes a big difference, though - especially to women.