What
does the Bible say about....
Fornication?
1 Corinthians
6:18-20 & 1 Corinthians 7:1-2
"Flee fornication.
Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth
fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body
is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God,
and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify
God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. Now concerning the
things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and
let every woman have her own husband."
The dictionary
meaning of the word "fornication" means any unlawful sexual intercourse
including adultery. In the Bible the Greek definition of the word "fornication"
means to commit illicit sexual intercourse. What constitutes unlawful sex?
Whose laws do we live by? Worldly standards or laws many times do not always
line up with the Word of God. The founding fathers of the United States
established many laws that were originally based on Christian standards
and the laws of the Bible. However, through time the United States has
drifted far from these standards and at the present our moral standards
are shocking the world. However, immorality is not only found in the U.S.
but is a world-wide epidemic. Societies throughout history and around the
globe have embraced sexual standards that are called sins in the Bible.
Fornication
is not just tolerated in our society but is actually being encouraged.
The sin of fornication is being committed even among Christians, as many
couples "live together" and have sex before marriage. The Bible tells us
to flee this sin. We have counseled Christians of the opposite sex who
share an apartment and they told us they were not having sex so this surely
wasn't wrong. The Bible declares these words in 1 Thessalonians 5:22-23:
"Abstain from
all appearance of evil. And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly;
and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless
unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ."
Our lives as
Christians are a living witness to others and we cannot break the laws
of God without hindering others from coming to Christ. We must live our
lives in purity before a sinful and wicked world. We should not be living
according to their standards but according to God's standard in the Bible.
No couple should live together outside the bonds of marriage.
Many say they
live together before marriage to see if they are compatible as they don't
want to divorce. This may sound like a justifiable reason for committing
the sin of fornication, but in God's eyes it is still sin. Statistics however,
show that those who live together before marriage are more likely to get
a divorce than those who do not. Living together shows a total lack of
trust in God and a failure to commit to Him the choosing of a mate. Christians
who are living in this situation are out of the will of God and need to
repent and seek God as to whether this person is the right one for them.
If it is God's will for them to be together they should marry. Otherwise,
they need to change their living arrangements.
As Christians,
the goal of any relationship should be to cause the people in our lives
to love and know the Lord better. Living together is shameful and selfish
as the parties do not care what others think or how they might affect their
families and others. They are living to please their own lust and selfish
desires. This type of life style is destructive and especially so for children
whose parents are living a bad example before them. No wonder our children
are confused about right and wrong when parents degrade the sanctity of
marriage by living together out of wedlock. How can living together cause
children to love and honor God when their parents break the laws of God
before them because they are lustful?
Young people
today need to be taught to abstain from sexual intercourse and remain pure
virgins before marriage. So many problems in marriages today stem from
the fact that they are not virgins when they marry. Young people are bringing
wounded emotions and diseased bodies into their marriages because of prior
promiscuous affairs. STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) are so widespread
that the statistics are shocking. There are 12 million new cases of STDs
annually in the United states and 67% of these occur among persons under
the age of 25. In fact, every year one out of six teens contracts an STD.
100,000 to 150,000 women become infertile each year as a result of STDs.¹
Others endure years of pain as some of these diseases are incurable. What
a tragic price to pay for sexual sins. The Bible is right when it says
fornication is a sin against one's own body.
The sin of
fornication is not only defined as illicit sexual intercourse between those
who are not married but also is an umbrella for other sexual sins as well.
The Bible also speaks of the sin of incest as fornication in 1 Corinthians
5:1:
"It is reported
commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is
not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's
wife."
The Bible also
lists whoremongers as fornicators in Revelation 21:8:
But the fearful,
and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and
sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake
which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
All prostitutes
and pimps are fornicators. Couples who just "live together" according to
the Bible, are committing the same sin that whores commit. Singles who
"make love" fall into the same category. Just because society has accepted
this type of living does not make it right. The Bible must be our standard
of what is right and wrong. We must change our standards if we do not want
the wrath of God to fall on us. God hates sin but He loves the sinner.
If anyone repents and calls on Jesus today He will help them to come out
of any illicit relationship and heal them of all past hurts and even heal
any disease that they may have contracted.
God gave us
the laws in the Bible for our good. They are not meant to deny us any good
thing but they are given so we can enjoy the proper sexual relationship
in the proper time. If we obey the words of the Bible and "flee fornication"
and glorify God in our bodies, the Lord will bless us beyond what we could
believe.
Psalm 145:17-21:
"The LORD is righteous in all his ways, and holy in all his works. The
LORD is nigh unto all them that call upon him, to all that call upon him
in truth. He will fulfil the desire of them that fear him: he also will
hear their cry, and will save them. The LORD preserveth all them that love
him: but all the
wicked will
he destroy. My mouth shall speak the praise of the LORD: and let all flesh
bless his holy name for ever and ever."
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