What
Does the Bible Say About
Suicide?
"Do not be
a fool--why die before your time?" (Ecclesiastes 7:17b)
Almost everyone
would agree that life is the most precious gift that human beings have
been given. Just the chance to be alive on this earth and play a part in
the grand scheme of God's eternal plan is a privilege indeed. Yet, despite
this, there are times when life becomes so difficult or unbearable that
many have, at one time or another, wished they were dead or had never been
born. For some, these feelings linger--and if they linger long enough,
suicide seems to be the only escape. In fact, in the United States (and
stats are similar in countries around the world) the suicide rate has tripled
among teen and young adults in the past 40 years.
What does the
Bible say about suicide? How does God view it? Do all those who kill themselves
go to Hell?
Very few would
argue with the fact that suicide is a direct breaking of the Sixth Commandment
which is, "You shall not murder." We are not to murder each other or ourselves.
God created human beings in His image and each of us carries within us
the potential to overcome the evil in this world, and to rule and reign
with Christ in heavenly places. If we are Christians, we no longer belong
to ourselves, but to God. We are overseers of our bodies and our lives
(which belong to Him), and we are responsible to guard that which has been
entrusted to us.
Suicide is
a grievous sin that seriously hurts both the heart of God, and those who
loved the deceased. The pain of losing a loved one who took their own life
is not easily healed, and often isn't fully healed until Heaven. Whether
you are contemplating suicide or know someone who killed themselves, God
wants you to know there is hope and life for you. He is the great Healer
and Restorer of what has been lost or stolen.
Many of the
greatest saints and heroes of the Bible faced overwhelming depression and
sometimes wrote that they wished they had never even been born. King David,
(Psalm 13:2-4), the prophet Jeremiah, (Jeremiah 20:14-18), and Job, (Job
7:15-16) among others, all reached low points where they despaired of their
very lives.
Job says, "So
that my soul chooseth strangling, and death rather than my life. I loathe
it; I would not live alway: let me alone; for my days are vanity" (Job
7:15-16).
Yet, each one
of these men were blessed of God, and persevered through their trials as
an example to us. Though they faced great suffering and injustice, they
kept their faith in God and His goodness, and in so doing, were sustained
and led into abundant life.
Though we may
get depressed from time to time, we believe that the act of suicide never
takes place apart from demonic influences driving one to take their own
life. Suicide is directly counter to the power of life that God has put
so strongly into His creation. Everywhere we look we see life growing,
even in the most hostile environments. This "survival instinct" is a gift
from God. In fact, if He didn't bestow this gift upon His creation there
probably wouldn't be any life on this planet at all! Suicide, then, is
directly contrary to the will of God, and originated in the realm of the
demonic host, who come only to "steal, and to kill, and to destroy" (John
10:10). Though demons may try to tempt us to kill ourselves, as Christians
we have power over the devil and he cannot push us to do this if we sincerely
call on the name of the Lord!
We are all
in a spiritual battle. The problem is, many of us are not aware of it,
and do not know
how to protect
ourselves against attack.
Do all those
who kill themselves go to Hell?
Some people
believe that all who commit suicide go immediately to Hell. However, the
Bible never says if this is the case. The Bible is silent on this issue.
God probably did not address it in black in white for a good reason. If
we knew that we would still go to Heaven if we killed ourselves, there
would probably be a lot more suicides taking place than there already are.
However, if we knew that all who killed themselves were automatically banished
to Hell, no matter what their situation, it may be too much for the grief-stricken
family and friends to bear. Murder and suicide are not unpardonable sins.
The only unforgivable sins are rejecting Christ (Mark 16:16) and blaspheming
the Holy Spirit.
(Mark 3:28-29
KJV) Verily I say unto you, All sins shall be forgiven unto the sons of
men, and blasphemies wherewith soever they shall blaspheme: But he that
shall blaspheme against the Holy Ghost hath never forgiveness, but is in
danger of eternal damnation:
All other sins
can be forgiven. However, anyone contemplating suicide may be in danger
of going to Hell, as their relationship with the Lord is not intact at
that point. Those who would consider suicide may have a severed relationship
with Christ and therefore they would enter the real Hell--which is worse
than the hellish feelings they are experiencing at the moment.
It is so important
to remember that God judges each of us individually, weighing all the factors
of our lives, our beliefs and our motives. Each one of us is so intricate
and complex, only God could really judge us in total truth, wisdom, and
without favoritism. The most important truth of all, is that each one of
us will stand before His throne and give account of our lives. If we lived
intimately with this sobering truth, much of the sin in the church and
the world, would immediately be stopped.
If you are
contemplating suicide and are relying on God's grace to get you to heaven,
PLEASE stop for a moment....God's grace never means that we have a free
license to sin! Those who willfully sin after knowing God's grace, are
in far greater danger than those who know less. Though you may feel that
God is far from you right now, He is much nearer than you think. He may
even be speaking to you through these words! Please open your ears and
hear Him tell you how valuable your life is. You are needed on this earth
and the purpose for your life has not yet been fulfilled. God loves you,
and so do many people around you! God would not be God if He could not
work this situation (no matter how unbearable it may seem) for His glory
and for the good in your own life.
Depression
is often anger, and a host of other emotions that have turned inward and
become frozen. If you are carrying anger, resentment, bitterness, unforgiveness,
frustration, jealousy, despair, worthlessness, hopelessness, fearfulness,
vengeance and/or self-pity in your heart, you can turn these things over
to God and begin to receive your healing right now, in faith. If you don't
know how to let them go, confess it to God and ask for His help in releasing
it to Him. No one can overcome these things by themselves. We all need
the power of God to set us free from sinful and hopeless ways of thinking.
That is why the Bible tells us that we must be "transformed, by the renewing
of our mind (Romans 12:2)." The Holy Spirit is the only One who can help
us break free
and be healed of these deadly emotions.
Just as ailments
in our physical body need to be treated with medicine to be healed, the
same is true of our emotions. One powerful way to fight against depression,
is to apply and confess God's Word as a healing balm to the places where
you have been wounded. For instance, if you have unforgiveness in your
heart, begin to confess God's verses for love and forgiveness, even if
they don't exactly feel true right at the moment. If you feel worthless,
confess the Scriptures of God's great love for you. A rote, mechanical
repeating of words may not do much, but if you deliberately take these
living words and hold on to them for dear life, you will have the enemy
on the run. The devil simply cannot stand against the Word of God spoken
in faith. God's Words are like spiritual antibiotics, destroying every
germ and unclean thing in their path.
In closing,
we would like to pray with you here. We have written a prayer below, and
we encourage
you to not
only read it, but to say it out loud!
Prayer to God
"Father, in
the name of Jesus, I come before You, confessing my need for You, and crying
out to you from the bottom of my heart. Lord, You've said that you are
near to those whose hearts are breaking and that you give grace to the
humble. I humble myself before you now...I cast down any pride or self-justification
that I would hide behind, and I present myself to you as I truly am--weak
and helpless and despairing of my very life. I know there is no other Rock
but You, and I turn to You with all of my heart. Father, please forgive
my sin! I open myself up to receive Your cleansing, Your healing, Your
forgiveness, and Your faith, hope and love into my being. I receive your
love as a river, washing over the dry wasteland of my emotions. I see that
in Your river there is life, and that every place your river touches in
me is revived. I cast all my cares, my sorrows, my disappointments into
that river and I let the current of Your spirit carry them far away. I
believe You, when You say that You think good thoughts about me, and that
Your plans are to give me a future and a hope. I believe You when You say
that You knew who I was even before my mother conceived me--and that You
wanted me to be alive on the earth right now. Thank you for giving me life!
Thank you for working all things in my life for good! Thank you that I
can call on your Name and You will be near me. Thank you for bearing all
my weaknesses and diseases on the cross, and healing me, spirit, soul and
body."
Command Against
Satan
"Satan, I close
every door that I have opened to you and I renounce every activity I have
partaken with you. In Jesus name, I submit myself to God. I resist you
and command you to flee from me, as it is written in James 4:7! I remind
you that you are defeated by the power of the cross--and with the authority
given to me by Jesus Christ I command you and force you to leave me right
now!"
Prayer To God
"Father, I
receive Your breath of Life into my mortal body now. I lift up my hands
to You, to receive it; I fix my hopes on it and turn my life completely
over to You. From this day forth I pray that you will give me the grace
and wisdom to guard my heart diligently, to obey You and to resist every
scheme of the enemy. I commit all I am to You and I have full faith that
You are able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all I could ever ask or
think. Lord, send me the help I need now. Show me the way.
I thank you
for the love that you have lavished upon me and I pray that for the rest
of my life, I will show that same love, mercy and forgiveness to all those
around me. Amen!"
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