1. You can't give up. I need you. We need you. Those of us who are in the same boat as you, swimming in the same pain. We all need you. We all need each other. Let's all encourage ourselves, and make it through, for ourselves, for other survivors, and for other's out there, that might not know or have the resources to get help.
2. What if it gets better? Think of what you would be missing, if all your sadness was worked through. What if there is life after rape? What if there is life after pain? What if there is life after flashbacks? What if there is life after something traumatic has happened to you? You will never know if you give up now.
3. You aren't going to let them win. They (your abuser(s)) have taken so much of your life away from you. Don't let them take anymore power from you. Dont give them the satisfaction that they won. You can do this, and you can survive.
4. There is someone that loves you, and if you don't have someone that loves you, then email me. I'll be your friend, I'll be your "family." It's okay. Reach to me, or someone else, and I'll be there for you.
5. Sit down and think about this. Do you really want to die? Do you really want your life over? Maybe you need a new outlook. What if I told you that you didn't want to die, but that you wanted the pain to go away? The only way for the pain to go away, is for you to want that change. Don't get me wrong, it's not an easy road to go down. I'll be honest with you, it's the hardest thing in the world to go through the healing and to go through the memories, but it can be done. There are ways to get through it. Find that one person you can trust. Find that one somebody in your life, and start speaking up for yourself. There is a way through this, without ending your life. The problem that needs to be overcome, is that you need to want that change to happen.
6. You sick of me talking? Are you sick of hearing me telling you things? You need me to be quiet? I can do that too. You just want someone with you to tell you that it's okay and to hold you? My email is lil_big_dreamer@hotmail.com. If I'm not online, leave me a message. You don't even have to tell me that you need help. Just say hello, and we can become friends. I'm telling you right now, I can help you through this, and be there for you, but it's up to you. You have to take the steps necessary in order for it to work. |
