A Submissive's BDSM Checklist - Part 4 (of 4)

Basic philosophy of SSC (= Safe Sane Consensual) underlies all negotiations.

Answer all that may apply to you. If something does not apply to you just leave it blank. Indicate the one's you know roughly the answers to as to you willingness and arousal and need. If you are unsure either leave it blank or enter a comment or "?". This serves as a quick way to initial negotiations between subbie and dom/me.
DONE IT: tick which activities you have done before
WILLINGNESS:
- 0 is a hardlimit,meaning you will not submit to this at all (at least as far as you know at this time)
- 1 is a soft limit, which means that you may be able to be convinced to submit to the activity
- 2 means you will submit, probably reluctantly, you may need restraint, and require further convincing to cooperate
- 3 means will submit without question (...mostly)
AROUSAL : '-' means a turn off, 0 is zero arousal one way or the other, '+' means this activity arouses you
BDSM NEED/WANT: 0 means it does nothing for you, 1 means it satisfies a bdsm need/want, 2 means it satisfies a bdsm need/want to a high degree.

Name of submissive

Email

PAIN

Done it
(tick)
Willingness
(0 1 2 3)
Arousal
(- 0 +)
BDSM Need
(0 1 2)
Care to specify any upper limits?
and/or further comments
Abrasion
Ball stretching
Bastinado, foot sole torture
Beating full body - heavy strap - soft
Beating full body - rubber bat - hard
Beating full body - heavy strap - hard
Biting
Branding
Caning
Cattle prod - electrical toy
CBT - cock and ball torture
Clothes pins
Cupping/suction
Cutting, blood sports
Electricity
Fireplay
Hair pulling
Hot oils - on genitals
Hot waxing
Knife play
Labial clips
Nipple clamps
Nipple clamps with chain
Nipple clothes pins
Nipple rings /piercings
Nipple play /pinching mild torture
Nipple torture
Pain - mild
Pain - medium
Pain - severe
Piercing
Pinching
Plastic surgery
Punching
Scarification
Scratching - receiving
Scratching - giving
Spanking - belt/strap
Spanking - over the knees/bent over
Spanking - flogger
Spanking - hand
Spanking - paddle/hairbrush
Spanking - on all fours
Spanking - crop
Water torture
Waxing hair removal
Whipping - genitals
Whipping - knotted whip
Whipping - leather cat
Whipping - breasts
Whipping - single lash
Whipping - taws
Whipping - bullwhip

SEX

Done it
(tick)
Willingness
(0 1 2 3)
Arousal
(- 0 +)
BDSM Need
(0 1 2)
Care to specify any upper limits?
and/or further comments
Anal Plugs - small
Anal Plugs - large
Anal Plugs - public - under clothes
Cock worship
Dildo - anal
Dildo - Oral
Dildo - vaginal
Double penetration - anus and vagina
Double penetration - mouth and vagina
Double penetration - mouth and anus
Double penetration - multiple partners
Forced homosexuality
Forced heterosexuality
Forced masturbation
Forced nudism - private
Forced nudity around others
Orgasm denial
0rgasm control
Phone sex serving Dom/me
Phone sex - commercial provider
Phone sex serving Dom/me's friends
Prostitution - public pretense
Prostitution - actual
Rimming - anal play
Sex - anal
Sex - armpits
Sex - ass cheeks
Sex - breasts
Sex - fingers
Sex - group
Sex - hands
Sex - oral giving to females
Sex - oral giving to males
Sex - oral - receiving from females
Sex - oral - receiving from males
Sex - thighs
Sex - vaginal
Sexual deprivation - short term
Sexual deprivation - long term
Strap-on dildo sucking
strap-on dildo penetrated by
strap-on dildo - wearing
Swallowing semen
Swapping - one other couple
Threesome
Moresome (more than three)
Tripple penetration - dildo
Tripple penetration - multiple partners
Vibrator on genitals

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