Last Updated August 19th, 2002

 
Now I don't admit that I know everything there is to know about transforming. However, some of the best tips I have run across, I have found on the pages of other girls like myself. The advice here may not work for everyone or may be quite obvious to most, but I thought that I would make it available to anyone who may find it useful. These tips work for me or have worked for me in the past.....so for what it is worth:
Make-up brushes and foam wedges - I read once that it is the tools of the trade, not just the make-up itself, that create the beauty. I didn't give much credence to this until I bought my first brush set and bag of foam wedge sponges. The difference in my appearance was huge. The wedges allow for a much more even application of foundation and better finish. The brushes are just plain easier to use and more accurate than the standard applicators that come with store bought eye shadows, blush, lip sticks, etc.
Eyebrows, plucking and taping - I am somewhat fortunate that I don't have large bushy eyebrows but I still think that it gives a much better appearance to pluck the eye brows a little. I usually don't pluck very much; just clean up the edges and shorten the brow a little (on both sides of each eyebrow). I can then pencil in the narrow line on the outside for a very feminine look. If I apply two strips of 3M Transpor Surgical tape upwards and outwards for each brow, it totally opens up the eye. You will have to play with it yourself to find the best tape combinations for your own face. A side effect to plucking my eye brows is that when in drab, people started to comment that I looked younger. I have never received a comment that it in anyway has feminized my drab look.
Skin Care - Moisturize, Moisturize, Moisturize.
Hip pads - I think it is basically understood the genetic female has wider hips then males. I tend to have very narrow hips to begin with, even for a boy. So from the start I padded then out a little. At first I used shoulder pads (available from most fabric stores). Then I really studied my shioulette to find out where I was lacking. I have made hip pads out of foam and I have bought a set from Fredericks. These always looked very awkward and unnatural. You have to get them shaped just right to avoid this. Another alternative, which I made from supplies purchased at the fabric store, were homemade pads. Using the batting for quilts, I cut and layer the batting (very much like a topographical contour map). Once I have the right dimensions, I sandwich the batting between two pieces of tan fabric. Since I don't sew, I apply a thin bead of fabric glue all around the edge of the pad and then cut off the excess fabric. These can even be cleaned by throwing them in the washing machine.
Getting a make-over - For myself, getting a make-over is not just an enjoyable experience but I usually find it very educational. If you ever get one, try and pay attention to what the artist is doing, say for example, how they contour your face. Many artists do things differently. So pay attention and you may discover a look or technique that works for you. All the make-up artists I have ever visited are very open to discussing what they are doing, what make-up they are using, or what colors are being applied. If you ask them direct questions, you may find that they are extremely helpful.
Holiday shopping - In my opinion there is no better time to shop; especially for those of us who are somewhat apprehensive to buy from mainstream stores and shop in drab. During the holiday season, I find it ten times easier to browse the racks and make purchases. Often sales people are so busy that they don't give you a second look and are more understanding when asked a question like "will this fit a size 10/12?" To help reinforce the idea that you are buying a gift, you can ask for a gift box. Another thing is that the styles of clothes I like are from most fall and winter lines, these seem most abundant during the holiday times.
Fake Nails - A friend of mine turned me on to "Kiss" nails. These nails come in prepainted sets with glue already applied to the backs; no more tape taps like the Lee press on style. The Kiss nails come in many fashionable colors, styles and a couple of different lengths. I think they work much better than other nails I have used. The drawbacks are that they really can't be used more then once. The sets don't come with many different sizes (I use the largest ones and I just make it). Also, they tend to be a little more expensive than other glue-ons.