Where can you go to meet people? I have read statistics that say 80% of single people who are looking to meet other singles go out to a bar or night club at least once a month. The bad news is that only 12% or so people will tell you they met their current partner in a place like this. Almost 20% will tell you they met their partner at work. And the highest % of people meet through friends. My advice would be to check with your friends first to see where they go to have fun. The most important thing is to be someplace you really like being. You have to have the right attitude to meet people and part of that is how comfortable you are. For example if you are into heavy metal music you are more likely to meet someone at an AC/DC concert than you are at a country western bar trying to learn the boot scoot boogie. You have to think like the kind of person you want to meet. I remember an issue of cosmopolitan that listed the ten best places to meet guys. My advice to male friends at the time was to read that article and go to where the women were expecting to meet guys. And they would have the advantage already knowing they were being sought. You might want to make notes during this first step. Write down the places where you feel more confident. Write down the places that seem to offer more friendly or desireable people to approach. Maxamize your potential. A club or teen dance offers a lot of potential but also has a maximum rejection potential as well. As you move away from some of the so called standard singles scene's it can get harder to approach someone. But on the other hand you are less likely to get a flat out rejection. You should be ready to meet someone at anytime, anyplace, and under any curcumstances. The more you get out the more you realize there are hundreds of possibilities. Use all your resources and you will find what you are looking for.
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