Sunday, June 05, 2005

Speech Development

We've been very lucky with Elizabeth.

She slept through the night at less than a month old. She eats well. She sleeps well. She's never been sick. She's affectionate. She's smart. We don't deal with picky eating. We don't deal with pacifiers or a refusal to wean from bottles, thumb-sucking, etc. We don't deal with food allergies or ear infections or learning disabilities, etc.

So...we know that we're very lucky.

Elizabeth is beginning to worry us in one area, though. She's 22 months old this week...and she doesn't talk. At all. Not one word.

She doesn't nominate anything with language. She doesn't say "mama" or "daddy" or "cup" or "cookie" or "drink" or even "no." Nothing...nada...zippo. For a while, we thought she was saying "uh-oh," but she never really copied the sounds properly; just copied the inflection. She never used it to mean "oops," either. She simply mimicked the inflection whenever the mood struck her. So...we cannot really count that as speech in the developmental sense.

Her hearing has been checked multiple times. She understand an absolutely amazing body of language, already. We speak to her all the time and she responds with understanding to a huge number of words and phrases. She just doesn't repeat any of them or try to copy speech sounds.

She watches her Baby Einstein videos and responds with understanding to all the activities and phrases from them. She knows lots of body parts and will point to the appropriate part when you say the name. She can put shape puzzles together and is beginning to learn colors by name. She is riveted by story time and insists on having book after book read to her. Like most toddlers, she has a few favorites and she wants to hear them over and over. It is clear that she has made the connection in her mind that text on the page equals words that someone can say...because she will pick the books up, point to the text, and "read" in Lizzie babble to her stuffed animals.

So...we just cannot figure out why in the world she hasn't begun to speak.

She is behind. She is WAY behind. Lizzie's lack of speech is no longer in the range of "normal," so Ashley and I feel strongly that a diagnosis/intervention of some sort would be the responsible and right thing to do. We'll are looking into getting her an appointment with a speech pathologist ASAP. The medical staff on base is very VERY overloaded right now, so it might be a while before we can get a referral. Once I get the appointment, I will post an update.

Thursday, May 12, 2005

First Post

Well,

I have been resisting the blog train for a long time because I just didn't want to take the time to sit and learn how to code one.

So...I've taken the lazy woman's way out and created this here blog on blogger.com and published it here through the miracle of ftp. *smile*

For those of my family and friends who come here and read my ramblings, thank you so much. I love you guys for thinking my inability to shut up is endearing rather than annoying. I truly appreciate that so much. I also appreciate that you actually read what I write and listen to what I say. With me...it's such a tall order to do that.

This space will be my mommy venting. I hope that, after time, it will be a nice record to keep for Lizzie. It will also be just the document necessary to prove to her that she's at fault for my insanity later in life. Hee hee.

Love and such 'til next time.