This webpage has been done for all of you animal lovers who have lost their pet and is having trouble coming to terms about loosing your pet. I am going to explain to you how to try and get over the loss of your animal. I have lost loads of pets but this recent pet I have lost I am still trying to get over the loss of my pet.
When we had a dog I thought that I would never get over here dying because she had cancer of the stomach I think and she was a diabeatic aswell but she died when she was 10yrs old. When it was a weak gone since she died everytime I walked into the house I kept on expecting her to run to me for her to pick her up but after a few weeks it really got harder and harder I used to walk into the house and call out her name thinking that she was still here then if I saw some of her toys I would just start crying because we would miss her so much and then if you where buying food for yourselves you would feel guilty for not buying for her. I had a very bad time of trying to get over her because I walked into a supermarket and buy her chicken breasts or fillets because that was her favourite meals so she would have that everyday and then when I got back home I would start cooking the chicken fillets/breasts and then when somebody walked in and saw me cooking the chicken they said to me what are you doing and I said that I am cooking tiny's chicken and then they said well she isn't here now so I would just walk away then I would start crying because I missed her so much.
At first I must admitt it is very hard to get over the death of your pets but in time the pain does get easier but their are times when you do think about them and you get upset or if you see photos of them you can also get upset aswell. It is natural to be upset about loosing your pet it is like loosing a member of the family. The worst times you will feel it is when it becomes their Birthdays, Easter,Christmas, Last Christmas I was crying my eyes out because it was our First Christmas without her it is a horrible feeling when that happens.
The best way of trying to get over the breavement of your pets is try and put everything way that belongs to them, and then try and keep your self busy for the next few months until the pain easiers. It won't ease very much but a little just so you can get by. The first few days and weeks and months are the worst because everytime you go home you always expect them to be their or run upto you.
Once a couple of months have gone by the pain starts to get easier then and then 6 months have gone by it starts to get a bit easier again and then a year and then 14 months but then you are back to where you started from when it becomes the pets birthday then the breavement starts again after a couple of days it will start to go easier again. Then once two years have gone bye you begin to accept that your pet has gone but their is a part of your hearts that can never ever forget your pet I know how you all feel I have been through it a few times it has been a year ago in April since our doog died but it will get easier for us but that time will come but what I am saying that you can never ever forget your pets after they die.
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