PREDICAMENT
How do you react when predicaments come looming at you? Do you panic? Do you keep worrying? Do you keep asking for help? Or are you incline to commit suicide?
When facing problems, many people often feel life is not worth living anymore and tend to commit suicide which is not advicable. Commit suicide is not a solution for problems. Sometimes you may make other people's life much more miserable and new problems start coming to them. Committing suicide also shows that a person is selfish.
To find a solution for various kinds of predicament, you must first identify the problem. Before that, you must also not find fault to the person who caused a predicament to you. DOn't find fault, find the remedy. Then, think of a solution for it. It is important that you stay calm when you are thinking of a solution to the predicament which you have. When you stay calm, you will find it much easier to find a solution. If you panic, you feel that lots of delusions come in to your mind and instead of finding the remedy, you are making up lots of delusions.
Secondly, list out (you can do this mentally) the solutions which you have think about. Take some time to consider each solution. Consider it as critically as possible so that you can know the negative points and positive points of each solutions. This is to prevent from making the problems worse or making new problems. Choose the one which have the most positive points.
Thirdly, carry out the solution which you have chosen and carry it out as it was planned. Don't change a thing from your solution and do not be indecisive. Be decisive and have confidence. Not diffidence. And also be optimistic. Not pessimistic.
If the solution is successful then that's a good news but sometimes the outcome of a solution may not be as what you have planned before you carried out the solution. So, if it is unsuccessful, you need to repeat (which means you need to identify the problem again, etc.). Don't blame others if your plans are unsuccessful.
Actually, predicaments sometimes make you more 'stronger' and wiser. This is because when you face predicaments and manage to deal with it, you realized that you have experience dealing with problems. So, predicaments usually come in a disguise of a blessing.
So, whenever problem comes looming in your mind, don't panic because every problem can be solved. There's always a way out for every problem.
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