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When I have to make an important decision which have serious effect on my future, we had better make the final decision for ourselves. It is because it is us who have to make responsible for the decision. If we depend on other's recommendation and opinion totally, we must regret in near future. We have to consider our own things and decide everything depending on our own thought.

However should not consult others, before decide something important? Definitely yes. Before saying "final answer", we had better consult others in order to judge everything connecting our important decision more objectively and reasonably. In short, only our own decision without cosulting others is sometimes too subjective and too stupid, because of lack of knowledge and experience.

Consulting enables us to make the most of others' various kinds of experience and knowledge. When I considered our future, whether I work in society or become postgraduate student or study abroad, I talked with our friends, teachers, and parents. They gave me much advice in each point of view. These advice differ from one another, but it was very useful to consider my future for myself. Finally, I decided to aim at learning translation at college in Australia or England as a postgraduate student. Although I made final decision for myself, others' advice helped me to think about my future standing various points of view, I am sure that I could make reasonable decision by thinking in various point of view.

We can reconsider our decision more calmly by talking to others, It is because when we consult others, we have to inform correctly what kind of things we are thinking. When we think about serious things alone, we tend to be emotional. In this condition, we cannot make reasonable decision. Showing the problems enables us settle down thinking about the important things.