<< When I was a student, I spend much more time with my
friend than now. I used to take lecture at school, eat lunch,
and study again, then go shopping, Karaoke, or restaurant with my
friends. Althogh I did not all the things with the
same members, I would spent more time with
others.
The present life is not imaginable for what I
was one year ago. Now, I spend more time alone before my
family member back home. At first spending time alone seemed to be
boring, but now I have got used to doing it and notice how spending
time alone satisfyed my desire to do many things freely and now, I even prefer
to spending time alone more than spending with my
friends.
Spending time alone guarantee the freedom
from necessity of caring about others. Since I can do anything I
want without caring others, I can concentrate on doing things.
For instance, I like watching movie alone rather than with others. It is
because I can concentrate on the story of the film works. When watching
movie, I usually feel like watching more than two film works a day. If I go
to theater with others, I have to take their preference of movie
and whether or not they also watch more movie into the consideration.
However, on the other hand, I know well the
remarkable time I can spend with my favorite friends. I also
love talking with them or going everywhere like, shop, cafe, and restaurant.
We usually talking there. I also love calling friends and chatting for a
long time. But I do not want to spend more time with
others than alone. In fact, I cannot talk on the phone more
than nine hours but now, I spend alone more than nine hours everyday
without feeling sad.
In this way, I like spending time both alone and with
my friends, but on balance I like the time spending alone better. It is
because I like freedom from everything prevent me from doing as I like.
Plus, I have lot of things what I am devoted to do alone like studying, reading,
watching movie.
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