<< Spending time with my friends is very fun and
relaxes me. My friends have different characters and they enjoy me in each
different way. Although I have a very good time with many of my friends by
making a fuss with them, I prefer spending more time with a few close
friends. It is because the time I can relax with them is more comfortable
than the exciting time I spend playing with many friends.
Spending with a large number of friends have other enjoyment for me than with a few intimate friends. I cannot relax nor do what I want so much, but I can enjoy having feast with them. When I was a student, I sometimes participated in party or feast held by members of my college's club. We drunk lot, laughed loudly, and sing school hymn at a large station: this had unrealistic joy and refreshed me, though I could not enjoy these things if I was with less than ten members and sober. I have several friends with whom I can really talk about private things like my future plan or my human relationship with others. Whenever I feel like seeking them some advice about such private topics, I can consult with them without caring about the closer friendsf reaction. It is because they are very familiar with my character and I have confidence they accept or at least respect my opinion and let me talk about my serious problems. My especially intimate friends give me very comfortable time. I can relax very much with them. It is because as I said before, they know about me very well and so I do. Thus, I need not care about their feeling as seriously as when I play with comparatively less intimate friends. Even if I have different idea from them and we argue with one another, our quarrel never breaks our good relationship. Of course, in any case, when discussing about everything, I have to care not to hurt their feeling and feel necessity of respecting my dear friendsf point of view. |