| << I think friends are the most important influence on young adults. But I don't know exactly what types or stages of people you call as young adults. So in the next paragraph, I will tell you how I want to define the young adults. I think each people experiences mainly three stages in their lives. At first stage, they born in some family and live with their parents or brothers until they leave their home. In the next stage after graduating their high school, they enter some university or college and live alone apart from their family. At the final stage, they marry with their prince or princess and have a new family. I think the latter two belong to the category of young adults. I think for the people in the second stage, friend are important for their lives or how they live. On the other hand, for people in the third stage, their family have important influence on them. Most people think that the second stage belongs to the idea of young adults. I also think that, so in the first paragraph I have said that friends have most important influence on young adults. In the next two paragraph, I want to explain why friends or families are important for the second stage people and the third stage people respectively. For the second stage people, young adults who are not yet married, friends would take a more important role than their family. Though in most cases university or college students still depend on their parents financially, they live without their family and live alone. So people in this stage live free from both their parents' family and their future family. So I think for people in this stage, their friends have most important influence on their lives. People in third stage, young adults who have already married, might be influenced by their new family. I am now in the second stage, and don't know exactly how the life of a new family is. What I tell you is just an imagination of mine. So I want you not to take seriously what I tell you, that is just an imagination of a single young adult. I want to be a father who cares my family most. Though I know friends are also important for people who have their new family, but what is the motivation of you work? My mather once said that, "Of course your father love his job and he is very satisfied when his patients go back to their home happily. But most large reason why he works for is you and your brother.". I'm very impressed by what she told me. I understood then what the adults are. Children can do what they loves without caring about anything. But adults can not. However you do what you like, if you are an adult, you can not live without money. You can not satisfy your wife and children if you don't earn enough money. I know even without money we can live happily, and moeny is not the goal of our lives, but still we can not live with the least amounts of moeny. So I think a new family could be a great motivation of what young adults work for. In conclusion, as I have said above we go through mainly three stages in our younger life. And for most people, young adults mean the second stage. So I think friends have the most important influence on them. |