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 My friends have different characters and some of them  have same character, preference, and hobby and others are quite different.  Although they enjoy me with their each characters, I prefer to be with those who have the same character as I.  It is because we can understand one another easily and I can feel relax because of less necessity to care about them so much. 
 
  I would rather spend time with my friends who have the same character because of relaxation they give me.  We usually the same preference, which saves me unnecessary anxiety that what they like or how they feel.  Therefore, I can feel easy to do everything with them.  They also easily predict and understand rapidly my thought. When I need to ask them some advice, they give me adequate and useful advice and warning.  They are usually what I want them to say me.  Because I sometimes need to feel relaxes by consulting someone with my troublesome incidents or private things, such friends are necessaries for me.
 
  Those who have different point of view are also treasure for me because they bring me wonderful point of view that I never imagine alone, which let me widen my thought and broaden my mind.  For instance, they tells new interesting things.  Some friends, who love jazz and bruis tells me the fascination of these music.  Although I still do not have interests to jazz and bruis like these friends, I got more chance to listen to jazz music.  It was some palls having different characters that recognized me the excitement of horse racing.  When arguing or discussing some topics with them, I am certainly puzzled to fail to tell my real thought or to find the difference of point of view.
 
   Of course, from these experiences, I can encounter many ideas and many times discussion will enables us to know their real mind and respect their thought as they are. However, I need to care more things to be with the person having different characters; whether they are bored, what they really want to do now and etc.   It is because I know well that they eventually have different thought and even if I accept their opinion as it is, I seldom share the same feelings and preference. That is why I  still prefer spending with the similar types of people despite the marvelous and novel things and idea different types of friends often bring to me.