| << My friends have different characters and some of
them have same character, preference, and hobby and others are quite
different. Although they enjoy me with their each characters, I prefer to
be with those who have the same character as I. It is because we can
understand one another easily and I can feel relax because of less necessity to
care about them so much.
I would rather spend time with my friends who have the
same character because of relaxation they give me. We usually the same
preference, which saves me unnecessary anxiety that what they like or how they
feel. Therefore, I can feel easy to do everything with them. They
also easily predict and understand rapidly my thought. When I need to ask them
some advice, they give me adequate and useful advice and warning. They are
usually what I want them to say me. Because I sometimes need to feel
relaxes by consulting someone with my troublesome incidents or private things,
such friends are necessaries for me.
Those who have different point of view are also
treasure for me because they bring me wonderful point of view that I never
imagine alone, which let me widen my thought and broaden my mind. For
instance, they tells new interesting things. Some friends, who love jazz
and bruis tells me the fascination of these music. Although I still do not
have interests to jazz and bruis like these friends, I got more chance to listen
to jazz music. It was some palls having different characters that
recognized me the excitement of horse racing. When arguing or discussing
some topics with them, I am certainly puzzled to fail to tell my real thought or
to find the difference of point of view.
Of course, from these experiences, I can
encounter many ideas and many times discussion will enables us to know their
real mind and respect their thought as they are. However, I need to care more
things to be with the person having different characters; whether they are
bored, what they really want to do now and etc. It is because I know
well that they eventually have different thought and even if I accept their
opinion as it is, I seldom share the same feelings and preference. That is why
I still prefer spending with the similar types of people despite the
marvelous and novel things and idea different types of friends often bring to
me.
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