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Fortunately, I have no experience to lose my precious friend because of money that I borrow, but I agree with the idea that borrowing money from my pals can be harm for sound relationships to some extent.  It is because money can change people's character.  In fact,  money is one of the main couses of troubles or confricts between human relationship according to current news on TV or newspaper. From these actual cases,  I guess that in order to keep our own benefit, we can break up our intimate relationship with others.
 
  It is not returned money but borrowing money itself that destroys friendship.  In fact, when I was a student, I borrowed money from my intimate classmate several times but did not break up our friendship. When I left my purse at home and cannot eat lunch or back home, they willing to pass me enough money to do such things.  The reason why I did not harm our relationship is absolutely whenever I borrow money, I returned it rapidly. 
 
 However on the other hand, if we do not return to the kind people that helped us by their own precious money, our relationship will be broken up.  Even if they do not demand us to return money, they must remember the fact that they borrowed.  Therefore, they receive physical and mental damage of losing money caused by not  returned money. Then, they come to regard the "friend" as insincere people.
 
  Considering these things, I have to conclude that borrowing money can be harmful for maintaining our trustful relationship.  Of course I admit that if only we return the money rapidly, our relationship will not be damaged.  But we cannot deny the possibility of failing to return by unexpected incidents and in this case we also have to concede that some of our friends might not understand our personal excuse.  As I mentioned already, losing money means their physical and mental lost.  Therefore, when we are forced to help others' financial support by our trust, we have to keep in mind its potential risk of damaging our future retationship.