| << Fortunately, I have no experience to lose my precious friend
because of money that I borrow, but I agree with the idea that borrowing money
from my pals can be harm for sound relationships to some extent. It is
because money can change people's character. In fact, money is one
of the main couses of troubles or confricts between human relationship according
to current news on TV or newspaper. From these actual cases, I guess that
in order to keep our own benefit, we can break up our intimate relationship with
others.
It is not returned money but borrowing money itself
that destroys friendship. In fact, when I was a student, I borrowed money
from my intimate classmate several times but did not break up our friendship.
When I left my purse at home and cannot eat lunch or back home, they willing to
pass me enough money to do such things. The reason why I did not harm our
relationship is absolutely whenever I borrow money, I returned it rapidly.
However on the other hand, if we do not return to the
kind people that helped us by their own precious money, our relationship will be
broken up. Even if they do not demand us to return money, they must
remember the fact that they borrowed. Therefore, they receive physical and
mental damage of losing money caused by not returned money. Then, they
come to regard the "friend" as insincere people.
Considering these things, I have to conclude that
borrowing money can be harmful for maintaining our trustful relationship.
Of course I admit that if only we return the money rapidly, our relationship
will not be damaged. But we cannot deny the possibility of failing to
return by unexpected incidents and in this case we also have to concede that
some of our friends might not understand our personal excuse. As I
mentioned already, losing money means their physical and mental lost.
Therefore, when we are forced to help others' financial support by our trust, we
have to keep in mind its potential risk of damaging our future
retationship.
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