2. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND.
- Real friends inspire and push each other to be the best
that they can be, rather than drag each other down.
They are happy when other people achieve their goals.
3. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
- Don't let hurt turn to grudge.
This is one sure way to destroy a friendship.
Forgive your friend and move on.
4. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKES.
- This is one way to show concern for others.
If you really care, you will tactfully point out
a specific example for his own good.
But once you've brought the problem to your friend's
attention, don't harp on it all the time.
Don't walk away from a friendship when you
see some of your friend's faults.
Be patient with a friend as he or she tries to change.
Realize that nobody is perfect.
5. BE RELIABLE.
- When you say you are going to be there, be there.
6. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIENDS.
- Real friendship does not mean you
always have to be together.
It may be tempting to have a fun
person all to yourself, and feel threatened
when your friend spends time with others.
If you are afraid to let your friends out of your sight,
you are probably afraid of losing them.
Good friendship will endure time spent apart.
You and your friends may learn to
appreciate each other even more.
7. BE THERE FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.
8. LEARN TO ACCEPT PERSONALITY DIFFERENCES
9. DON'T BE A BLABBERMOUTH.
10. DON'T LET ARGUMENTS DESTROY YOUR FRIENDSHIP.
- Celebrate with them if your friends
are excited about something.
give them your full attention.
Most of the time, what friends really need is a
sympathetic ear, someone who understand their feelings.
IN YOUR FRIENDS.
- Be careful not to evaluate other people by how you
react in a particular situation.
Do not automatically take your friends' behaviour personally.
- Learn and be willing to keep each other's secrets.
- Suppose you're having a discussion with a friend and
after you've said what you think is true,
they still disagree.
Don't keep arguing until you get mad with each other.
Just drop it.
Your desire to win the argument may ruin your friendship.