Rules for courting:

  1. Be coy- Be aloof. Be nonchalant. You cannot just announce your love or like to a girl. In the romantic movies a guy will say "I love you" and he will get the girl. In real life it works a bit differently. If you are friends with a girl things become bad at that point. When you tell a girl that you like or love her, she will avoid you and be repulsed by the notion of going out with a friend. Her friends side with her and your friends side with you. If you share the same friends a lot of people end up getting very hurt. Only go after a friend if you really know it’s the right thing to do. If she's not a friend she will wonder how you liked her when you guys don't even talk that much. She will still avoid you
  2. Self-esteem- Another thing do not doubt yourself. Second thoughts usually end conversation pretty quickly. Imagine this scene you start talking to miss wonderful and all of the sudden you think you've said the wrong thing. Then you try to cover it up, tripping over words, and saying all sorts of offensive things which only cause her to think of you as insane. If you make a mistake in conversation leave it be and move on. If you say that marijuana is the coolest and then remember that your gal's brother got high and killed himself ( no joke ), just apologize and change the subject. Be honest and polite and she will always want to be near you. Then you must get to know her and gradually move up.
  3. Touching- An important relationship booster is physical intimacy. After you've had a few inspiring conversations with her you must then try to get physically close to her. Do not force yourself upon her. Wait for her to need you. She will. When it looks as if she needs a bit of comfort, or warmth or a pillow, give it to her. If she's happy and jumping, jump with her. All girls at some point during any given week will need a bit of human contact. You just have to make sure that you are the one in contact with her. This is also a great relationship gauge. You shouldn't even mention going out until she has fallen asleep in your arms at least once. If she won't ever let you touch her in any way maybe you should give up and move on to another girl. If she is the girl of your dreams still don't push it try to talk a bit more and make it comfortable for her.
  4. Comfort- Uncomfortable relationships end rather quickly or they don't start at all. There is no direct, do this and you will be okay, method to getting a girl to be comfortable with you. First you must be comfortable with yourself. For a lot of people that is hard to do. Don't capitalize on mistake, capitalize on the good things that have happened in your life. For mistakes, figure out where you made the error and try not to do it the next time such an opportunity arises. If this is impossible just accept it. If you are comfortable with what you've done you can be comfortable with yourself. Once you are comfortable with yourself wear a smile ( it really helps ). She will usually smile back and in time she will find your smile endearing. To make her comfortable follow the steps above. Never ever lose your demeanor no matter what she does. It is just a test.