Getting to know her
First impressions- This is where it all begins. They are the worst or the best depending on how you see it. Be impressive. Show her what there is to like about you. When you share interests make sure that she knows that you share them. This will give you a lot of future room to talk about things. Music and movies are always a good starting point. If you two have those in common you are half-way there because there is always a new movie to discuss. If there are any non-disgusting talents that you have show her. A good showing of your abilities will always impress any girl, no matter how much she says she abhors bragging. Everyone has some talent and some people have many, instrument, smarts, leadership anything that you can show her will help. Never say that you are great or even good at your talent. Show it to her and let her decide.
Second impressions- First impressions are not all that crucial. They set a tone but it is a tone that can always be reset by a good second impression. Many people start out on the road of love with their foot in a hole. Most likely she didn’t get to see all of you. The answer to this predicament is, of course; to show her more. Perhaps it just was not in the cards for the two of you to hit it off immediately. Nothing in life worth getting is easy. Anything easily come is also easily lost. Work at it. These may sound cliché but they are the rules in game of love.
Be yourself- Yet another cliché. Once again it is another rule especially with impression. Think on this. You meet the most fabulous girl and she’s also way into classic rock like The Who. You happen to be into rap, like Method Man. All of the sudden you pretend to be into The Who and bone up your classic rock knowledge. She loves you for loving Classic rock. But now you have to buy The Who and Jimmy Hendrix and hide your Tupac and Mace. Then all of the sudden she’s watching a movie at your house when your Mom comes down stairs wondering why you spent $200 yesterday on records that she already has in vinyl. Oh no. Your girl runs out of the house calling you a liar and vowing never to speak to you again. Harsh? Yeah, but that'll be your life. Lying never pays off in the long run it just makes more work. Stay true to who you are.