10 Tips For Being A Good Friend.
1. FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN GIVE TO A FRIEND,
NOT WHAT YOU CAN GET OUT OF A FRIENDSHIP.
If being happy is your only motive for
wanting someone to be your friend, then you are not
being a real friend. Don't get caught up in
keeping tab's on who has given most in the
friendship. Give to your friends regardless of how much they
give to you.
2. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND.
Real friends inspire and push each other to
be the best that they can be, rather than drag
each other down. They are happy when other
people achieve their goals.
3. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE.
Don't let hurt turn to grudge. This is one
sure way to destroy a friendship. Forgive
your friend and move on.
4. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THEIR MISTAKES.
This is one way to show concern for others.
If you realy care, you will tactfully point
out a specific example for his own good. But once you've
brought the problem to your friends attention, don't
harp on it all the time. Don't walk away from a friendship
when you see some of your friends faults. Be patient with a
friend as he or she tries to change. Realize that nobody is
perfect.
5. BE RELIABLE.
When you say you are going to be there, be there.
6. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIENDS.
Real friendship does not mean you always have
to be together. It maybe tempting to have a
fun person all to your self, and feel threatened when
your friends spends time with others. If you are
afraid to let your friends out of your sight, you are
probably afraid of losing them. Good friendship will
endure time spent apart. You and your friends may
learn to appreciate each other even more.
7. BE THERE FOR THE GOOD AND THE BAD TIMES.
Celebrate with them if your friends are
excited about something. But don't be there
just for the good times. When your friend is upset
about something, give them your full attention. Most
of the time, what friends really need is a sympathetic
ear, someone who understand their feelings.
8. LEARN TO ACCEPT PERSONALITY DIFFERENCES
IN YOUR FRIENDS.
Be careful not to evaluate other people by how
you react in a particular situation. Do not
automatically take your friends behavior personally.
9. DON'T BE A BLABBERMOUTH.
Learn and be willing to keep each other's
secrets.
10. DONT'T LET ARGUMENTS DESTROY YOUR
FRIENDSHIP.
Suppose you're having a discussion with a
friend and after you've said what you think
is true, they still disagree. Don't keep arguing
until you get mad with each other.Just drop it.
Your desire to win the argument
may ruin your friendship.
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